When it comes to solo pleasure, using a good lubricant can make all the difference.
Why? Because a lubricant suitable for masturbation allows:
- to reduce unpleasant friction
- to maximize pleasure
- and to respect the balance of the mucous membranes.
👏 Thanks to it, no more discomfort that sometimes cuts off momentum when the glide isn't there.
But be careful! Not all lubricants are suitable for masturbation. Versatile and body-friendly, water-based lubricant gel remains the preferred choice today. But other options exist.
Whether you are a woman, a man, non-binary or gender-fluid, here is our advice for choosing your lubricant during your masturbation sessions.
Why use a lubricant during masturbation?
Why settle for the bare minimum when a few drops of lubricant can change everything?
Using a lubricant during masturbation allows you to:
- Improved comfort : no more burning or chafing, just pleasure.
- Increase pleasure : with a lubricant, the skin reacts better to caresses.
- Extend the experience : you control the rhythm without discomfort cutting off the momentum.
- Respecting the mucous membranes : a good lubricant preserves the natural balance of your intimate flora.
- Relieving vaginal dryness : very common in women.
➡️ In short, using a lubricant for masturbation means refusing to compromise on your pleasure. It means giving yourself every chance to fully enjoy your solo sessions, without restraint or hindrance.
What are the different types of lubricants and their advantages?
Today, there are 3 main types of lubricants:
- Water-based lubricants: the safe bet. Compatible with all sex toys and condoms, they mimic natural lubrication and rinse off easily. Their only drawback is that they dry out a little quickly, but they remain the safest for the body.
- Silicone-based lubricants: very long-lasting and perfect for use in the shower. Their glide is unparalleled, but they don't rinse off easily and can damage sex toys. Furthermore, silicone is a chemical compound derived from silicon, industrially processed, and therefore not biodegradable.
- Oil-based lubricants: Rich and dense, they provide a smooth glide and a comforting, cocooning sensation, ideal for massages. However, they stain, don't rinse off easily, and should never be used with a latex condom. Reserve them for external or sensual play, and use with caution.
👉 At Goliate , we have chosen to completely exclude silicone from the composition of our lubricants. True to our eco-responsible approach, we prioritize organic, vegan, and French-made ingredients.
Which lubricant should I choose depending on the area being stimulated and the method of masturbation?
When masturbating, the choice of lubricant depends on two main factors: the area being stimulated and whether or not a sex toy is being used.
What type of lubricant is right for you?
You masturbate with a sex toy
If you masturbate with a sex toy, we recommend using a water-based lubricant . This type of lubricant has several major advantages:
- Water-based lubricants do not damage the material of your sex toy
- They are easier to clean, since they do not leave a greasy film on the surface of the toy.
- In their organic version, they respect your body and the environment thanks to natural ingredients, without perfume or irritating additives.
Oil-based lubricants , like our Massage Gourmand , can also be used when masturbating with a sex toy. They offer a smooth texture and a long-lasting glide. However, they should never be used with a condom, as they can weaken the latex and make it porous.
Silicone lubricants , on the other hand, are only compatible with sex toys made of glass or metal. At GOLIATE, we have chosen not to produce them, in order to remain true to an ecological, responsible and organic approach.
You masturbate without a sex toy
If you are not using a sex toy when you masturbate, the choice of lubricant will depend on the area you wish to stimulate:
- To stimulate the clitoris: opt for a water-based formula. This type of lubricant is ideal for mimicking natural lubrication.
- For vaginal penetration: opt for a water-based or silicone-based lubricant.
- For anal penetration: choose a water-based lubricant with a thick texture. Silicone-based lubricant is also suitable.
- For penis masturbation: invest in a good water-based lubricant.
Everyday products that should absolutely not be used as lubricants
The properties of certain everyday products may seem like a good alternative to a lubricant. However, their use for intimate purposes actually carries real risks of irritation and infection .
- Vaseline : too greasy and occlusive, it promotes bacterial growth and increases the risk of vaginal infections. It is also incompatible with condoms and difficult to clean.
- Lotions and soaps : they often contain perfumes, preservatives, or alcohols that can irritate mucous membranes. Even a "gentle" lotion can cause burning or itching after intimate use.
- Cooking oils : their texture may seem pleasant at first, but they oxidize quickly and become an ideal breeding ground for bacteria. Olive oil, for example, weakens the latex in condoms and can disrupt the vaginal flora. These oils are neither sterile nor suitable for intimate areas.
- Butter : a dairy product, it quickly becomes rancid at body temperature. It can cause irritation and promote microbial growth if it is not thoroughly cleaned after use.
- Saliva : it dries quickly, irritates mucous membranes and can transmit sexually transmitted infections such as gonorrhea.
- Baby oil : too greasy and occlusive, it destroys the protective barrier of latex and promotes skin irritations.
Decipher the ingredients in your lubricant: your intimate life deserves better
Before we talk about pleasure, let's talk about trust.
An intimate lubricant is intended to be applied to the most sensitive areas of the body. What you put on your skin often ends up being absorbed into your body.
That is why it is essential to know the ingredients of the lubricant and to learn to identify formulations to avoid.

Ingredients to absolutely avoid
The composition of your lubricant shouldn't resemble a pharmaceutical lab catalog. Yet, how many products boast endless lists of additives with no real purpose?
‼️ Artificial fragrances, chemical dyes, phthalates, parabens, foaming agents: all these ingredients add absolutely nothing to your pleasure. Worse still, they can seriously irritate your mucous membranes or disrupt the balance of your vaginal flora.
A word of advice? If you need a chemistry degree to decipher the label, that's a bad sign! A good lubricant is recognized by its simple and transparent formulation.
Natural ingredients as allies for your intimate well-being
Choosing an organic or vegan lubricant guarantees the absence of controversial ingredients in the product's composition. Whether for enhancing feminine intimacy or respecting the sensitive skin of the glans, these lubricants become trusted partners during your moments of pleasure.
Made in France with 100% natural ingredients, GOLIATE products embody an ethical approach to intimate care. Free from endocrine disruptors and silicones, and dermatologically tested, our lubricants contain only the essentials. For your pleasure, always!