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Comment lâcher prise pendant un cunnilingus ? GOLIATE

How to let go during cunnilingus?

If cunnilingus is an erotic act, a source of pleasure, not all women love it. It all depends on the partner, the moment, the vision we have of this practice and our complexes... So how do we let go and savor it? Advice.

feel clean
It's silly to say, but far from being absurd. Many women fear cunnilingus for fear of smelling bad, being "a little dirty" or sweating. We live in a society that constantly hunts hair and bad odors, which is freaking good when our last shower was less than three minutes ago. The best solution, when you can't casually take a shower before sex (and you really want to), is to drag your partner into the bathroom. Underwater, the pleasure is different, more sensual, and soap is never far away. We can even ask the other to soap our sex as a preliminaries...

Dare to go black!
Another complex: the light is a little too bright! We often put ourselves in the place of our partner and we visualize our sex in close-up (not pretty to see, we say to ourselves). But all genders are beautiful. Sight is a sense which is not idle during love and which stimulates sexual desire. So, if we refuse that our partner slips his nose between our legs, eyes wide open on our private parts, turning off the light is a first step that allows abandonment. A small candle will suffice, for a subdued atmosphere! And if you are already in the bathroom while reading these lines, note that nothing prevents you from washing in the dark, with a trickle of light from the next room.

think about yourself
To abandon oneself to any sexual practice, it is good to awaken one's small part of selfishness. Often, we don't take full advantage of it, as if it were unwelcome, as if we didn't deserve this attention… Wrong. Let's dare to savor these few minutes of happiness and think of us, just of us, of this crazy goodness that we feel, of this man who caresses our sex with his tongue or a stranger that we have been fantasizing about for ages... We are free to travel.

Guide your partner
What if we thought we weren't into cunnilingus when only a few clumsiness on the part of our partner kept us away from pleasure? We can guide him! As long as we don't redirect him, he will think that his practice suits us. However, there is no shame in not liking the way he does it, it does not question our love for him. We can therefore, with our two free hands, replace our head, touch our sex to separate our lips otherwise, and so on.

Don't wait for the miracle
If there is a common mistake, which we already make with orgasm, it is to think about the result while forgetting to focus on the most important thing: our sensations! During cunnilingus, there's no need to cross your fingers while repeating "As long as it does!" ". By dint of trying to like it, we put pressure on ourselves and we miss out on the most pleasant. It is by emptying your mind and focusing on what you feel second after second that you will take your foot by surprise!