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Les poils et l'intimité : exploration de la perception des poils dans la sexualité

La question des poils corporels, en particulier ceux situés dans la région intime, a suscité de nombreux débats et évolutions au fil du temps. Les modes de rasage et d'épilation ont influencé la perception des poils dans la sexualité, et cette perception continue d'évoluer aujourd'hui.  Nous vous proposons une exploration approfondie de l'origine des modes de rasage et d'épilation, de leur impact sur la perception des poils dans la sexualité, et des raisons biologiques pour lesquelles nous avons des poils. Et comme toujours, nous soulignerons l'importance de se sentir bien dans son corps, au-delà des attentes de la société ou de son partenaire. L'histoire des modes de rasage et d'épilation Antiquité L'épilation n'est pas une pratique récente. Les Égyptiens de l'Antiquité, par exemple, prenaient soin de leur hygiène et de leur apparence en enlevant tous les poils du corps, y compris ceux des zones intimes. Cette pratique était associée à la pureté et à l'esthétique. Les femmes utilisaient des recettes à base de sucre et de cire pour se débarrasser des poils. Les Grecs et les Romains de l'Antiquité considéraient également le corps sans poils comme un idéal esthétique. Les statues grecques, souvent représentées sans poils, témoignent de cette préférence. Pour les Romains, l'épilation était un signe de classe sociale élevée. Moyen Âge Pendant le Moyen Âge, la perception des poils a changé. Le corps poilu n'était plus perçu négativement, et l'épilation est devenue moins courante, en partie en raison des connotations religieuses et des valeurs de modestie de l'époque. Les poils étaient acceptés comme une partie naturelle du corps. Renaissance et époque moderne Avec la Renaissance, l'intérêt pour l'esthétique corporelle et la nudité dans l'art a ravivé certaines pratiques d'épilation, bien que ce ne soit pas aussi répandu qu'à l'époque antique. Ce n'est qu'au XXe siècle que le rasage et l'épilation des poils pubiens ont vraiment pris leur essor, en particulier dans les années 1960 et 1970, influencés par les mouvements de libération sexuelle et l'industrie de la mode. Impact des modes modernes sur la perception des poils XXe siècle Au cours du XXe siècle, les médias et l'industrie de la mode ont joué un rôle crucial dans la promotion du corps sans poils comme norme de beauté. Les publicités, les films et les magazines ont souvent présenté des corps féminins glabres, créant une pression sociale pour que les femmes (et dans une moindre mesure, les hommes) adoptent des pratiques d'épilation. XXIe Siècle Aujourd'hui, les pratiques d'épilation varient largement en fonction des préférences personnelles et culturelles. La montée des mouvements de body positivity et d'acceptation de soi a encouragé de nombreuses personnes à embrasser leur apparence naturelle, y compris leurs poils. Des célébrités et des influenceurs prônent l'acceptation des poils corporels, contribuant à une diversification des normes de beauté. Mais alors, pourquoi avons-nous des poils ? Fonction des poils corporels Les poils corporels, y compris les poils pubiens, ont plusieurs fonctions biologiques importantes :1. Protection : les poils protègent la peau contre les éléments extérieurs, tels que les rayons UV, les blessures mineures et les irritations.2. Régulation de la température : les poils aident à réguler la température corporelle en fournissant une isolation thermique.3. Réduction des frictions : les poils pubiens réduisent les frictions pendant les activités sexuelles et autres mouvements physiques, protégeant ainsi la peau sensible. Pour celles qui souffrent d'inconfort, nous vous recommandons d'utilisons un baume apaisant dédié à l'intimité comme notre baume soin vulve 100% bio à base de calendula pour un effet hydratant et apaisant immédiat.4. Phéromones : les poils peuvent retenir les phéromones, des substances chimiques qui jouent un rôle dans l'attraction sexuelle, au-delà des zones érogènes sur lesquelles ils peuvent se trouver. Études scientifiques sur l'épilation Plusieurs études scientifiques ont examiné les effets de l'épilation sur la santé. Par exemple, une étude publiée dans le *Journal of the American Medical Association* a révélé que l'épilation fréquente peut augmenter le risque d'infections cutanées, telles que les infections bactériennes et les poils incarnés. D'autres recherches ont indiqué que l'épilation peut causer des irritations et des microtraumatismes cutanés, particulièrement dans les zones sensibles comme les organes génitaux. Pensez à utiliser prendre de votre intimité pour vous sentir bien à tout instant. Préférences des hommes et des femmes en matière de pilosité Un sondage réalisé par l'institut de recherche YouGov en 2019 a révélé des préférences intéressantes en matière de pilosité intime. Selon ce sondage, environ 46% des hommes préfèrent que leurs partenaires féminines soient complètement épilées ou rasées, tandis que 30% préfèrent une épilation partielle et 24% n'ont pas de préférence spécifique ou préfèrent une apparence naturelle.Du côté des femmes, 56% préfèrent que leurs partenaires masculins soient au moins partiellement épilés ou rasés, tandis que 44% préfèrent une apparence naturelle ou n'ont pas de préférence spécifique. Ces résultats montrent que les préférences varient largement et que l'acceptation des poils corporels est en augmentation, et ce d’autant plus depuis le confinement.D’après le sondage réalisé auprès de la communauté Instagram de Goliate, vous êtes 56% à préférer le naturel (avec poil donc !) contre 44% pour le rasage/épilation.Tous les gouts sont donc dans la nature ! Se sentir bien dans son corps : l’importance du choix personnel Il est essentiel de souligner que le choix de se raser ou de s'épiler doit être personnel et basé sur ce qui vous fait vous sentir bien dans votre corps. Se conformer à des normes de beauté imposées par la société ou chercher à plaire à un partenaire ne doit pas dicter vos choix en matière de poils corporels. Écoutez votre corps Écouter votre corps et répondre à ses besoins est crucial pour votre bien-être général. Si l'épilation cause des irritations ou des infections fréquentes, il peut être préférable de repenser cette pratique. À l'inverse, si vous trouvez que l'épilation vous fait vous sentir plus à l'aise ou plus confiant, cela peut être une raison valable de continuer. Communication avec le ou la partenaire La communication ouverte avec votre partenaire sur vos préférences et vos attentes peut renforcer votre relation et votre confiance mutuelle. Exprimer clairement vos désirs et écouter ceux de votre partenaire peut aider à trouver un compromis qui satisfait les deux parties sans sacrifier le confort personnel. Les pratiques alternatives pour l’intimité et la sexualité Sextoys et gels intimes Les sextoys et les gels intimes peuvent enrichir la vie sexuelle en ajoutant de nouvelles dimensions au plaisir et à l'exploration. Les sextoys, tels que les vibromasseurs, les godemichets et les stimulateurs clitoridiens ou de prostate, peuvent offrir des sensations variées et intensifiées, tandis que les gels intimes et les lubrifiants peuvent améliorer le confort et le plaisir pendant les rapports sexuels.1. Lubrifiants bio : Les lubrifiants à base d'ingrédients naturels et bio peuvent être plus doux pour la peau et réduire le risque d'irritation. Ils sont souvent recommandés pour les personnes ayant une peau sensible et pour toutes celles et ceux qui souhaitent augmenter les sensations lors d'un rapport pour plus de sensualité.2. Huiles de massage : Les huiles de massage peuvent transformer les préliminaires en une expérience sensuelle et relaxante, favorisant une meilleure connexion émotionnelle et physique. La sexualité au-delà de la pénétration Il est important de rappeler que la sexualité ne se limite pas à la pénétration. Les caresses, les baisers, les massages et autres formes de stimulation peuvent être tout aussi, sinon plus, satisfaisants. Les préliminaires (qui rappelons-le font partie intégrante du rapport sexuel) jouent un rôle crucial dans l'excitation sexuelle et le plaisir, permettant de créer une connexion émotionnelle et physique plus profonde. Vous pouvez utiliser des crème érotiques pour découvrir de nouveaux aspects de votre sexualité et érotiser vos rapports. Quelles conclusions en tirer? La perception des poils corporels, en particulier ceux situés dans la région intime, a évolué au fil du temps sous l'influence des modes, des normes culturelles et des médias. Aujourd'hui, il est essentiel de se rappeler que le choix de se raser ou de s'épiler doit être personnel et basé sur ce qui vous fait vous sentir bien dans votre corps. Les poils ont des fonctions biologiques importantes, et leur présence ou leur absence ne devrait pas dicter votre estime de soi.En fin de compte, la clé est de se sentir à l'aise et confiant dans son propre corps. Que vous choisissiez de conserver vos poils ou de les enlever, l'important est de respecter vos propres préférences et de communiquer ouvertement avec votre partenaire. Les sextoys, les gels intimes et les pratiques sexuelles variées peuvent enrichir votre vie sexuelle et favoriser une meilleure compréhension et appréciation de votre corps. N'hésitez pas non plus à prendre soin de votre intimité avec des gels et cosmétiques adaptés à votre zones intimes.Pour approfondir vos connaissances sur ce sujet, consultez des sources fiables et des études scientifiques, et n'hésitez pas à discuter avec des professionnels de la santé pour obtenir des conseils personnalisés. Vous avez d'ailleurs accès à un premier rendez-vous gratuit avec un sexologue via notre guide du plaisir.

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Comprendre la période réfractaire : tour d’horizon complet

La période réfractaire est un phénomène naturel qui se produit après l'orgasme, durant lequel il est temporairement impossible d'atteindre une nouvelle excitation ou un autre orgasme. Bien que cette phase soit souvent associée aux hommes, elle affecte également les femmes, bien que de manière différente. Dans cet article, nous explorerons en détail ce qu'est la période réfractaire, les différences entre les sexes, comment la diminuer et comment optimiser l'expérience sexuelle en intégrant des sextoys, des gels intimes et d'autres pratiques. Qu'est-ce que la période réfractaire ? La période réfractaire est le temps nécessaire après un orgasme pour qu'un individu puisse de nouveau répondre à une stimulation sexuelle. Cette phase est due à des changements physiologiques et neurologiques dans le corps qui varient d’une personne à l’autre. La période réfractaire chez les hommes Chez les personnes à pénis, la période réfractaire est généralement plus prononcée. Après l'éjaculation, le corps entre dans une phase de récupération où il est biologiquement incapable de répondre à une nouvelle stimulation sexuelle. Cette période peut durer de quelques minutes à plusieurs heures, voire plus longtemps avec l'âge. Rien à voir donc avec les pannes sexuelles. Les hormones telles que la prolactine jouent un rôle crucial dans ce processus, en contribuant à la sensation de satiété sexuelle. La période réfractaire chez les femmes Les personnes à vulve, quant à elles, ont une période réfractaire moins définie. Certaines femmes peuvent atteindre des orgasmes multiples avec peu ou pas de période réfractaire entre eux, tandis que d'autres peuvent avoir besoin de quelques minutes de repos. Les facteurs hormonaux, psychologiques et physiques influencent la capacité des femmes à devenir de nouveau excitées après un orgasme.Sachez qu'il existe également des techniques pour décupler l'orgasme féminin. Facteurs influant la période réfractaire Plusieurs facteurs peuvent influencer la durée et l'intensité de la période réfractaire, notamment l'âge, la santé physique, les niveaux hormonaux, et l'état émotionnel. Il n’y a pas de généralité, alors ne vous affolez pas, la nature est ainsi faite. Âge L'âge joue un rôle significatif dans la durée de la période réfractaire. Les hommes et les femmes plus jeunes ont tendance à avoir des périodes réfractaires plus courtes que les personnes plus âgées. Chez les hommes, cela est en général particulièrement visible avec une augmentation de la durée de la période réfractaire après la quarantaine. Santé physique La condition physique générale, y compris les niveaux de forme cardiovasculaire et la santé hormonale, influence également la période réfractaire. Un mode de vie sain, incluant une alimentation équilibrée et une activité physique régulière, peut aider à réduire la durée de cette phase. Comme d’habitude, évitez donc le tabac, la malbouffe ou l’alcool, et privilégiez une hygiène de vie saine au possible. État émotionnel Le stress, l'anxiété et d'autres facteurs émotionnels peuvent prolonger la période réfractaire. Un environnement détendu et une bonne communication avec le partenaire peuvent aider à réduire ces impacts. La communication dans le couple est souvent la clé pour entretenir le désir et aider à mieux contrôler ses émotions.C'est également le cas pour l'éjaculation féminine qui va dépendre de nombreux facteurs. Comment diminuer la période réfractaire ? Réduire la période réfractaire peut améliorer l'expérience sexuelle pour certains individus même si là encore, attention à ne pas chercher la performance. Voici quelques stratégies qui peuvent aider, mais n’oubliez pas qu’en sexualité, la performance n’a pas lieu d’être. Exercice régulier L'exercice améliore la circulation sanguine, augmente les niveaux d'énergie et favorise un bien-être général, ce qui peut contribuer à réduire la durée de la période réfractaire. Des activités telles que le jogging, la natation et le yoga peuvent améliorer la santé cardiovasculaire et hormonale. Alimentation équilibrée Une alimentation riche en antioxydants, en vitamines et en minéraux peut aider à maintenir un bon équilibre hormonal et une bonne santé sexuelle. Les aliments riches en zinc et en acides gras oméga-3, tels que les fruits de mer, les noix et les graines, peuvent être particulièrement bénéfiques. Techniques de relaxation Le yoga, la méditation et d'autres techniques de relaxation peuvent réduire le stress et l'anxiété, favorisant ainsi une période réfractaire plus courte. La pleine conscience, qui consiste à se concentrer sur le moment présent, peut également améliorer l'expérience sexuelle. Vous l'aurez compris, en matière de sexualité il n'existe pas de recette miracle, tout est question d'harmonie et de nuance. Prolonger le plaisir : techniques et outils Pour certains, prolonger la durée des rapports sexuels est une priorité. Voici donc quelques conseils pour tenter d'y parvenir : Utiliser des sextoys Les sextoys peuvent ajouter une nouvelle dimension au plaisir et aider à prolonger l'excitation sexuelle. Les anneaux péniens, par exemple, peuvent aider à maintenir une érection plus longtemps, tandis que les stimulateurs clitoridiens peuvent offrir des plaisirs variés aux personnes avec vulves sans forcément déboucher sur une pénétration. Les sextoys télécommandés sont également une belle alternative pour s’amuser à deux. Les vibrateurs, les godemichets et les stimulateurs de prostate peuvent également enrichir l'expérience sexuelle en offrant des sensations différentes et intenses et la découverte d’autres plaisirs (et de la prostate), notamment chez les hommes. Gel intimes et lubrifiants L'utilisation de gels intimes et de lubrifiants naturels bio peut non seulement rendre les rapports sexuels plus confortables mais aussi plus excitants tout en réduisant les frictions. Les lubrifiants bio, en particulier, sont recommandés pour leur composition naturelle et respectueuse du corps. Privilégiez un lubrifiant à base d’eau afin qu’il soit compatible avec vos sextoys et préservatifs ou notre crème 2-en-1 "couple gourmand" à la texture unique et au délicat gout de noisette qui permet à la fois de masser le sexe de votre partenaire, de le lécher, puis d'être utilisé directement comme lubrifiant. Une façon ultra efficace de sortir de la routine et de vous amusez à deux pour varier les plaisirs. Communication et exploration La communication ouverte avec le partenaire sur les désirs et les limites peut aider à trouver un rythme et des pratiques qui augmentent le plaisir mutuel. Explorer différents types de stimulations et pratiques sexuelles peut également prolonger l'expérience. Par exemple, les massages érotiques, les jeux de rôle... N’hésitez pas à varier les positions. Vous retrouvez plein d’idées sur notre page instagram ou notre blog. La Sexualité au-delà de la pénétration Il est important de rappeler que la sexualité ne se résume pas à la pénétration. Les préliminaires, les caresses, les baisers, la stimulation orale, les massages et autres formes de stimulation peuvent être tout aussi, sinon plus, satisfaisantes.   A ce sujet, nous vous invitons à explorer la circlusion afin de découvrir une nouvelle approche de la sexualité, au-delà des normes établies. La sexualité est un éternel apprentissage, alors éduquez-vous ; pour votre partenaire, mais surtout pour vous ! Sachez aussi que pour tout achat supérieur à 70€ sur le site de Goliate, vous aurez directement accès à notre Guide du plaisir, un programme unique de 18 modules vidéos pour apprendre à -se- donner du plaisir. Importance des « préliminaires » Bien que ce terme ne soit plus vraiment d’actualité car les préliminaires font partie intégrante du rapport sexuel, ils jouent un rôle crucial dans l'excitation sexuelle et le plaisir. Ils permettent de créer une connexion émotionnelle et physique, augmentant ainsi le plaisir ressenti lors de l'acte sexuel. Utilisation des huiles de massage Les huiles de massage peuvent transformer un simple toucher en une expérience sensuelle et intime. Elles favorisent la relaxation, augmentent l'intimité et peuvent même réduire la période réfractaire en prolongeant la phase d'excitation. C’est une approche très intéressante pour sortir des stéréotypes du rapports phallo-centré.  Les huiles essentielles, comme la lavande ou l'ylang-ylang présentent dans notre gel plaisir féminin dédié au clitoris ou huile de massage aphrodisiaque peuvent ajouter une dimension aromatique agréable. Conclusion Comprendre la période réfractaire et ses influences est essentiel pour améliorer l'expérience sexuelle et la satisfaction personnelle. Que vous cherchiez à réduire cette période ou à prolonger les moments de plaisir, il existe de nombreuses stratégies et outils à explorer. La communication, l'utilisation de sextoys, de gels intimes et la pratique de techniques de relaxation sont autant de moyens pour enrichir votre vie sexuelle. Enfin, rappelez-vous que la sexualité ne se limite pas à la pénétration ; l'exploration des corps et la découverte de nouvelles formes de plaisir peuvent être tout aussi gratifiantes.

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Quel vibro pour clitoris est fait pour vous ?

Le vibromasseur pour clitoris, souvent considéré comme un accessoire de plaisir discret, est bien plus qu'un simple gadget. En effet, il représente une révolution dans le domaine de la santé sexuelle et du bien-être féminin. Comprendre son fonctionnement, ses avantages et comment bien le choisir peut transformer l’expérience intime de nombreuses femmes, leur offrant non seulement du plaisir, mais aussi une meilleure connaissance de leur corps. Les vibromasseurs pour clitoris sont conçus pour répondre aux besoins variés des femmes, qu’elles soient novices en matière de jouets sexuels ou qu’elles recherchent de nouvelles sensations intenses. Chaque modèle possède ses propres caractéristiques et spécificités, rendant le choix parfois difficile, mais aussi excitant. Dans cet article, nous explorerons en détail ce qu’est un vibromasseur pour clitoris, les différents types disponibles sur le marché, et comment choisir celui qui vous conviendra le mieux. Nous aborderons également les aspects pratiques de leur utilisation et entretien, sans oublier de partager des témoignages d’utilisatrices et des avis d’experts pour vous guider dans votre démarche. Un vibro pour clito : comment ça marche ? Le vibromasseur pour clitoris est un dispositif conçu spécifiquement pour stimuler le clitoris à l'aide de vibrations ou de pulsations. Cet appareil, souvent compact et discret, utilise des moteurs internes pour créer des mouvements rapides qui se traduisent en sensations agréables lorsqu'ils sont appliqués sur la zone clitoridienne. Les modèles peuvent varier en termes de puissance, de modes de vibration, et de matériaux, offrant une gamme d'options adaptées à différents besoins et préférences. Le clitoris, avec ses milliers de terminaisons nerveuses, est extrêmement sensible, ce qui en fait une zone idéale pour l'utilisation de vibrations. Un bon vibromasseur pour clitoris permet de cibler précisément cette zone, offrant une stimulation directe et contrôlée qui peut être ajustée en intensité selon les envies de l'utilisatrice. Certains modèles offrent même des options de pulsation ou d'effet chaud/froid d variés pour diversifier les sensations.  Un brin d’histoire sur le vibro Les vibromasseurs ont une histoire fascinante qui remonte à la fin du 19ème siècle. À l'origine, ils étaient utilisés par les médecins pour traiter ce que l'on appelait alors l'"hystérie féminine". Ces premiers modèles étaient volumineux et rudimentaires, mais au fil des décennies, la technologie a évolué, rendant ces dispositifs plus compacts, efficaces et adaptés à un usage personnel. Les années 1960 et 1970 ont marqué un tournant avec la révolution sexuelle, où les vibromasseurs ont commencé à être commercialisés directement aux femmes. Cette période a vu l'apparition de modèles plus ergonomiques et esthétiquement plaisants, conçus pour être utilisés dans l'intimité de la maison. Aujourd'hui, les vibromasseurs pour clitoris sont à la pointe de la technologie, incorporant des matériaux de haute qualité comme le silicone médical, et des fonctionnalités avancées telles que la connectivité Bluetooth, permettant de contrôler l'appareil via des applications mobiles. Les vibros d’aujourd’hui : de plus en plus d’innovation L'évolution technologique a permis d'améliorer considérablement l'expérience des utilisatrices. Les moteurs sont devenus plus silencieux et plus puissants, permettant une stimulation plus intense sans compromettre la discrétion. Les matériaux utilisés, tels que le silicone médical, sont hypoallergéniques et faciles à nettoyer, garantissant ainsi une utilisation sécurisée et hygiénique.  Pourquoi utiliser un vibro pour clito ? Les vibromasseurs pour clitoris offrent bien plus que des moments de plaisir, ils sont de véritables outils de bien-être, contribuant à améliorer la santé sexuelle et générale. Utiliser un vibromasseur clitoris permet de mieux comprendre son corps, d’explorer ses préférences et de découvrir ce qui procure le plus de plaisir. L'auto-exploration grâce au vibromasseur clitoris peut conduire à une meilleure connaissance de soi. Cela se traduit souvent par une augmentation de la confiance en soi et une amélioration de la communication avec son partenaire. En comprenant mieux son propre corps et ses réactions, il devient plus facile de partager ses désirs et besoins, enrichissant ainsi la vie sexuelle de manière significative. Les vibromasseurs pour clitoris peuvent également aider à soulager certaines tensions physiques. Par exemple, les vibrations peuvent stimuler la circulation sanguine dans la zone pelvienne, aidant à détendre les muscles et à réduire les douleurs liées à la tension ou au stress. Cette détente physique s’accompagne souvent d’une relaxation mentale, contribuant à un état général de bien-être. Les vibromasseurs pour clitoris : des alliés pour le bien-être mental L'utilisation d'un vibromasseur clitoris est aussi bénéfique pour la santé mentale. Les orgasmes libèrent des endorphines, ces hormones du bien-être qui peuvent aider à réduire le stress et à améliorer l'humeur. Après une séance de stimulation, beaucoup de femmes ressentent une sensation de relaxation et de contentement, ce qui peut être particulièrement bénéfique après une journée stressante. Les vibrations rythmées et contrôlées peuvent également agir comme une forme de méditation. En se concentrant sur les sensations agréables et en étant présentes dans l'instant, les utilisatrices peuvent trouver un moment de calme et de répit mental. Cela peut aider à réduire l’anxiété et à promouvoir un sentiment de paix intérieure. Atteindre des orgasmes plus rapidement Le principal avantage des vibromasseurs pour clitoris reste toutefois le plaisir qu'ils procurent. Ils permettent d'atteindre des orgasmes de manière plus rapide et plus intense, surtout pour celles qui peuvent avoir des difficultés à atteindre l'orgasme par la seule stimulation manuelle.  Les différents types de stimulateurs clitoridiens Les vibromasseurs externes sont parmi les modèles les plus populaires pour la stimulation clitoridienne. Conçus pour être utilisés directement sur le clitoris et les zones érogènes environnantes, ces sextoys sont souvent compacts et faciles à manier. Leur design permet une stimulation ciblée, procurant des sensations intenses et précises. Chez Goliate, on vous propose plusieurs vibros dédiés au plaisir du clito : Liky le sextoy en forme de galet : pour un plaisir discret et doux, Nos boules de Geisha Dalia Ultimate : pour une utilisation interne et externe, Notre stimulateur clitoridien The Amazing : pour un plaisir intense qui vous emmène au 7e ciel à coup sûr, Notre Rabbit My Pleasure Plus : pour un plaisir intense qui stimule l’ensemble de votre vulve avec un effet chauffant activable si vous êtes curieuse ! Comment savoir quel vibromasseur pour clitoris est fait pour vous ? Chaque personne est différente, l’utilisation d’un stimulateur clitoridien dépend de vos préférences et de vos habitudes : Si vous êtes une fan du plaisir clitoridien : il va de soi qu’essayer est une excellente idée, Pour les novices notre Liki sous forme de galet vibrant est un excellent choix : il va vous permettre de découvrir en douceur le plaisir clitoridien et vous pourrez même l’utiliser pour des préliminaires plus douce ou pour la pratique du sexe vanille, Pour les expérimentés :  on vous conseille évidemment le My Pleasure Plus qui va vous permettre des découvrir de nouvelles sensations à tous les niveaux, Si vous aimez les différentes intensités : c’est notre vibro The Amazing qui fera votre bonheur. Dans tous les cas, le mieux c’est de commencer par quelque chose qui vous attire et vous semble accessible, puis vous pourrez toujours passer au niveau supérieur si vous le sentez ! Comment entretenir son vibromasseur ? Utiliser et entretenir correctement un vibromasseur pour clitoris est essentiel pour une expérience optimale et durable. Avant chaque utilisation, nettoyez-le avec de l'eau tiède et un savon doux ou notre nettoyant pour sextoy, puis appliquez notre lubrifiant naturel à base d’eau pour une expérience optimale. Commencez par les réglages de vibration les plus bas et augmentez progressivement en trouvant la position qui vous convient le mieux. Après usage, nettoyez de nouveau le vibromasseur et rangez-le dans un endroit propre et sec. Inspectez régulièrement l'appareil pour détecter tout signe d'usure et rechargez la batterie pour maintenir ses performances. En suivant ces recommandations, vous assurerez la longévité de votre vibromasseur et une utilisation hygiénique et sécurisée.

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Toutes vos questions sur le Point G

Bienvenue dans un espace où la curiosité rencontre le savoir et où chaque découverte ouvre la porte à des plaisirs insoupçonnés. Aujourd'hui, nous vous invitons à explorer avec nous l'un des secrets les mieux gardés du plaisir féminin : le Point G. Longtemps enveloppé de mystère et sujet à de nombreux débats, ce lieu de plaisir intense reste méconnu de beaucoup. Mais connaissez-vous vraiment le potentiel de cette zone érogène singulière ? Dans cet article, nous allons déchiffrer ensemble les mystères du Point G. Vous découvrirez non seulement où il se trouve et comment le stimuler, mais aussi pourquoi et comment cette petite zone peut jouer un rôle important dans votre épanouissement sexuel. Que vous soyez novice en la matière ou à la recherche de techniques avancées pour décupler votre plaisir, ce guide est pensé pour vous accompagner dans chaque étape de votre exploration. Posons les bases : c’est quoi le Point G ? Le Point G, ou point de Gräfenberg, est une zone érogène située à l'intérieur du vagin, dont la stimulation peut conduire à une grande intensité de plaisir et parfois à l'orgasme. Cette petite zone, sensible à la pression, se trouve à quelques centimètres à l'intérieur de la paroi antérieure du vagin, juste derrière l'os pubien. La quête du Point G : avoir accès à plus de plaisir Découvrir le Point G n'est pas seulement une exploration de votre anatomie; c'est une invitation à mieux connaître votre corps au travers de la masturbation par eemple, et à explorer votre sexualité d'une manière profonde et satisfaisante. Chaque expérience est unique, et trouver le Point G peut être une aventure personnelle enrichissante. Comment stimuler le Point G parfaitement ? Étape 1 : On commence avec les mains ! Avant d’introduire des accessoires comme un vibromasseur, commençons doucement : trouver le point G avec ses doigts est un super moment à partager, même si ce n’est pas aussi simple qu’il n’y paraît. L'utilisation des doigts pour appliquer une pression douce mais ferme peut aider à identifier cette zone sensible. Les mouvements des doigts vers le haut du pubis ou de va-et-vient sont souvent recommandés pour stimuler le Point G efficacement. ÉTAPE 2 : Trouver des vibros dédiés au Point G Choisir un vibromasseur spécialement conçu pour la stimulation du Point G peut transformer votre expérience. Ces vibromasseurs possèdent généralement une courbure qui permet d'atteindre et de stimuler plus facilement le Point G. Pour une stimulation optimale, il est conseillé de commencer doucement pour s'habituer à la sensation et d'augmenter progressivement l'intensité. L'angle d'insertion et la pression exercée peuvent grandement affecter le niveau de plaisir ressenti. Bien évidemment, chaque corps réagit différemment ! Ce qui fonctionne pour une personne peut ne pas fonctionner pour une autre. L'exploration et la patience sont donc cruciales. Comment rendre l’exploration du Point G inoubliable ? Si vous explorez avec un partenaire, la communication est la clé. Exprimez ce que vous ressentez et ajustez les techniques en conséquence. Relaxez-vous : être détendu est fondamental pour une expérience sexuelle agréable. Prenez le temps de vous mettre à l'aise et de vous détendre pour améliorer la sensibilité de votre Point G. Choisir le bon moment : le moment choisi pour stimuler le Point G peut également influencer l'expérience. Pendant l'excitation, cette zone devient plus engorgée et donc plus sensible, ce qui en fait le moment idéal pour commencer la stimulation. Créez une ambiance inoubliable : le sexe, c’est aussi une affaire d’énergie qu’on y met ! Mettez votre partenaire à l’aise, créez une ambiance douce et sensuelle à la slow-sex comme si vous vouliez lui faire un massage sexy pendant des heures et soignez les préliminaires. Il n’y a pas que la pénétration dans la vie ! Soyez à l’écoute de votre partenaire : l’écoute est d’une importance capital dans une relation sexuelle. Se rendre compte des réactions de l’autre, ce qu’il aime ou non, comment il réagit… C’est clé pour savoir comment lui procurer plus de plaisir.  Comment choisir le vibro idéal pour la stimulation du Point G ? Le vibromasseur idéal pour la stimulation du point G se distingue par sa forme courbée, conçue spécifiquement pour atteindre et stimuler cette zone érogène interne. Cette courbure permet au vibromasseur de presser contre le point G avec la quantité de pression idéale, sans efforts excessifs ou inconfort. Bien sélectionner les matériaux de vos vibros Choisissez un vibromasseur fabriqué à partir de matériaux sûrs pour le corps, comme le silicone médical, qui est non seulement doux et agréable au toucher mais également hypoallergénique et facile à nettoyer. Évitez les plastiques bon marché qui peuvent contenir des phtalates ou d'autres produits chimiques nocifs. Choisir entre les différents modèles La taille compte quand il s'agit de confort et de plaisir. Un vibromasseur trop grand peut être intimidant ou inconfortable pour certains, tandis qu'un modèle trop petit peut ne pas être efficace. Optez pour un vibromasseur dont la taille et la forme correspondent à votre expérience personnelle et à vos préférences. Chez Goliate, on vous propose 2 vibromasseurs parfaits pour la stimulation du Point G : My Pleasure : notre sextoy spécialement conçu pour la stimulation du Point G. Sa courbure pensée spécifiquement pour et sa douceur idéale vous ravira pour stimuler votre point G. My Pleasure Plus : ayant toutes les qualités du My Pleasure, il vous permet en plus de stimuler le clitoris pour faire exploser votre partenaire de plaisir. Comment stimuler le Point G avec un sextoy ? Pour stimuler le Point G avec un vibromasseur, commencez par appliquer un peu de lubrifiant à base d'eau pour assurer confort et fluidité. Introduisez le vibromasseur lentement, avec la courbe tournée vers le haut, vers la paroi frontale du vagin. Expérimentez avec différents niveaux de pression, vitesses et angles pour découvrir ce qui vous procure le plus de plaisir. Les questions fréquentes posées sur le Point G C’est quoi exactement le Point G ? Le Point G est une zone érogène située à l'intérieur du vagin, sur sa paroi antérieure. Bien que sa taille et sa sensibilité varient d'une personne à l'autre, elle est généralement située à environ 2 à 3 cm à l'intérieur du vagin, juste au-delà de l'entrée. Comment savoir si j’ai trouvé le point G ? Vous saurez que vous avez trouvé le Point G lorsque vous sentirez une zone légèrement plus rugueuse par rapport au reste du tissu vaginal. La stimulation de cette zone peut provoquer une sensation intense, qui peut être très plaisante pour certaines femmes, tandis que pour d'autres, elle peut être simplement confortable ou même indifférente. Est-ce normal de ne pas ressentir de plaisir à la stimulation du Point G ? Oui, c'est tout à fait normal. La sensibilité du Point G varie grandement d'une personne à l'autre. Certaines peuvent trouver une grande jouissance à la stimulation de cette zone, tandis que d'autres peuvent ne ressentir aucune sensation particulière. L'important est de découvrir ce qui fonctionne pour vous et ce qui vous procure du plaisir. Une chose est sûre, il faut essayer pour savoir si vous allez kiffer Chaque personne est unique, et la quête du Point G est une aventure personnelle qui peut nécessiter patience et expérimentation. N'hésitez pas à tester différentes techniques et jouets que nous avons recommandés, en vous écoutant et en respectant toujours vos limites personnelles et celles de votre partenaire. Si vous n’aimez pas, vous avez encore bien d’autres choses à tester !

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Increasing female orgasm tenfold, it's possible

Welcome to an intimate journey to the discovery of female pleasure, where we will explore together how to achieve vaginal orgasm. This subject, often shrouded in mystery and sometimes misunderstanding, deserves particular attention not only for its importance in sexual fulfillment, but also for the general well-being that it can generate. In this article, we demystify vaginal orgasm, providing you with clear information and practical advice to help you navigate this peak of pleasure. Whether you already have experience in this area or are curious to learn more about your own ability to experience a vaginal orgasm, you will find valuable resources here to enrich your journey. We'll discuss the differences between clitoral and vaginal orgasm , explore the factors that influence the ability to have a vaginal orgasm, and share specific techniques and tips for maximizing your pleasure potential. Ready to explore the depths of your pleasure? Let us guide you towards a better understanding of your body and its vast possibilities for experiencing pleasure. Join us to transform your approach to intimacy and strengthen your personal connection with your sexuality. How to promote female orgasm? Communication and connection with partner In the context of a shared experience, open communication with the partner is essential to achieving a vaginal orgasm. Expressing your desires, needs, and boundaries can help your partner understand how to effectively stimulate you. Additionally, a deep emotional connection can intensify the experience and make vaginal orgasm more accessible. Physical health influences orgasms General physical health can also affect the ability to experience a vaginal orgasm. For example, medical conditions such as vaginal dryness or pelvic pain can make penetration uncomfortable and therefore less conducive to orgasm. It is important to consult a healthcare professional if physical barriers persist. The importance of Kegel exercises Kegel exercises are a proven method for strengthening the pelvic floor, which can play a crucial role in the ability to achieve and intensify vaginal orgasms. A strong pelvic floor better supports the pelvic organs, improving sexual response and sensation during penetration. To perform Kegel exercises correctly, you must contract the muscles in the perineum that you would use to stop the flow of urine, hold them contracted for a few seconds, and then release them. It is recommended to repeat this process several times a day. Improve the body and mind connection Breathing plays a key role in relaxation and the ability to achieve orgasm. Deep breathing techniques can help relax the body and increase blood oxygenation, which improves arousal and sexual responsiveness. Breathing synchronized with movements during sex can also increase intimacy and shared pleasure with the partner. Meditation and visualization of pleasure Meditation and visualization are powerful tools for improving body awareness and emotional connection to the sexual act. Practicing meditation focused on bodily sensations can help dispel mental distractions and focus more on feelings of pleasure. Visualizing orgasm can also mentally prepare the body for the experience, increasing the chances of achieving it. Tips for promoting orgasm during intercourse Foreplay you will do Foreplay plays an essential role in sexual arousal, especially for vaginal orgasm. Intimate caresses , kisses, and other forms of erotic stimulation can increase blood flow to the genitals, improving sensitivity and the possibility of reaching orgasm. Taking the time necessary to build excitement is key. Ideal positions you will adopt Certain sexual positions are better suited to stimulating internal erogenous zones like the G-spot. For example, revisiting the missionary position , where the woman's legs are on her partner's shoulders, can allow for better vaginal stimulation. Using cushions under the hips to adjust the angle of penetration may also be beneficial. Sex toys you will use In addition to manual techniques, sex toys can be used during exercises to discover what stimulates vaginal pleasure the most. For example, dilators or vibrators specifically designed for G-spot stimulation can be valuable tools for women exploring their ability to have a vaginal orgasm. Clitoral Stimulators : Ideal for precise external stimulation, these devices are designed to be both compact and efficient, delivering impressive power to maximize pleasure. Rabbit Vibrators : Designed for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation, these Rabbit vibrators often feature customizable speed settings and vibration modes for a tailored experience. Geisha Balls : used to tone the pelvic muscles, these balls improve muscle control and the intensity of orgasms, while contributing to general pelvic health, especially after childbirth. You too can reach orgasm Every woman is unique in her ability to experience pleasure. Understanding and exploring your body is a deeply personal process, which requires patience and perseverance. There is no magic formula to guarantee a vaginal orgasm, but the techniques, tips and exercises we have shared here are valuable tools to increase your chances of having this rewarding experience. It is also important to emphasize that female sexuality should not be surrounded by pressure or stereotypes. Seeking to understand and improve your sexual experience should always be a process done with respect and self-love. We encourage you to experiment confidently, communicate openly with your partner, and rejoice in small discoveries along the way. We hope this article has inspired you to explore new dimensions of your sexuality. To continue learning and exploring, feel free to check out our other resources and guides available on our site. At Goliate, we are dedicated to providing you with reliable information and quality products to accompany you on your intimate journey.

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How to masturbate properly as a woman?

Welcome to a world where personal well-being and self-discovery take central place. Female masturbation, far from taboos and prejudices, is an essential facet of sexual health and personal fulfillment. How to go about it ? Whether you are new to this practice or looking to deepen your knowledge, this guide is for you. In this article, we will cover in a clear and detailed manner the basic techniques, the psychological and physical benefits, and advise you on the best ways to fully enjoy these moments of intimacy with yourself. Our objective ? Providing you with the keys to a serene and informed exploration, always respecting your pace and preferences. Because knowing your body is the first step towards a fulfilling sex life, we will guide you through the different approaches to masturbation, offering you practical advice and tailored recommendations. Let yourself be guided by our expertise and begin a journey towards greater confidence and pleasure. Discover with us how masturbation can not only improve your health, but also enrich your sex life. Why is masturbation important for women? Introduction to female sexual health Female masturbation is often shrouded in silence and mystery, but it is actually a healthy and natural practice that deserves to be explored with respect and openness. Understanding your own needs and desires is fundamental to a balanced and satisfying sex life. The psychological benefits of masturbation Masturbation isn't just about pleasure; it also plays a crucial role in the psychological well-being of women. It allows you to know yourself better, increase self-confidence and reduce stress and anxiety. By taking the time to discover what gives you pleasure, you develop a more positive relationship with your body. It is a form of self-affirmation and self-love that strengthens mental and emotional health. Why masturbate regularly? On a physical level, masturbation has several benefits. It can improve genital health by increasing blood circulation to the pelvic organs, which contributes to better tissue elasticity and optimal sexual function. In addition, it helps relieve certain menstrual pain thanks to the release of endorphins, the feel-good hormones. For women, exploring their bodies can also serve as a preventative exercise against sexual dysfunction, increasing the ability to achieve orgasm. It is essential to deconstruct the myths surrounding female masturbation . Contrary to popular belief, this practice is neither harmful nor selfish; rather, it is an important aspect of personal autonomy. Recognizing and accepting your own desire is a liberating act that opens the way to a richer and more satisfying sexuality. How to get started: first steps towards female masturbation? Make yourself confortable To begin practicing masturbation, it is crucial to create an environment that promotes relaxation and comfort. Choose a private place where you will not be disturbed, and where you feel safe and comfortable. This could be your bedroom, with clean sheets and dim lighting, or any other room that inspires tranquility. The ambiance can be enhanced with soft music or scented candles, depending on your preferences. Want to (re)discover yourself Before you even think about using toys or masturbation aids, it's important to start by exploring your body with your hands. Find out what caresses you like, what movements give you pleasure, and what rhythm suits you best. This personal exploration is fundamental to establishing an intimate connection with yourself, understanding your own sexual desires, and understanding your private parts to learn how to stimulate your clitoris and vulva. Have the right mindset Masturbation is not just a physical affair, it also involves your mental state. For many women, detaching themselves from everyday concerns and getting into a mindset conducive to pleasure can be a challenge. A few techniques can help, such as practicing meditation or deep breathing before you begin. It can also be helpful to consume erotic media, such as literature or films that stimulate the imagination and sexual arousal. Dare to get started Once the environment and state of mind are prepared, start with light intimate caresses around the erogenous zones without going directly to the genitals. This may include the neck, breasts, inner thighs. Gradually work your way to the clitoris and labia, using movements that increase in intensity according to your level of comfort and arousal. It's important to remember that every woman reacts differently, so what works for one person may not necessarily work for another. Best practices for masturbation Explore with gentleness and patience When approaching masturbation, particularly for beginners, it is essential to explore your body gently and patiently. Every woman has different preferences and sensitivities, which makes each experience unique. Clitoral stimulation : the starting point The clitoris, an organ dedicated to pleasure with more than 8,000 nerve endings, is often the focal point of female masturbation. Stimulation can begin with gentle circular movements or small pressures with the fingertips. It is important to vary the rhythms and pressures to discover what resonates most with you. Some prefer the use of a water-based lubricant to make this experience more pleasant and less irritating to the delicate skin in this area. Penetrate the vagina gently In addition to clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration can also provide pleasure. The fingers, after being thoroughly washed, can be used to caress the inside of the vagina. Movements can vary: some prefer gentle, rhythmic movements, while others may explore different angles and depths. It is also an opportunity to explore the G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, which can be a source of intense pleasure for some women. Use of lubricants The use of natural lubricants is recommended to make the practice more comfortable and pleasant, especially if you are exploring penetration techniques. Water-based lubricants are recommended because they are safe to use with all types of sex toys and do not damage the materials. They are also easier to clean and less likely to cause irritation. An often overlooked but essential aspect of masturbation is hygiene. Before and after each session, it is crucial to wash your hands and ensure that any toys or objects used are clean. This helps prevent infections and ensures a healthy and safe experience. Masturbation with sex toys for more pleasure Choosing your first sex toy Introducing sex toys into the practice of masturbation can transform the experience significantly. For women wondering how to masturbate in more varied and rewarding ways, sex toys offer a multitude of options. The key is to choose a first sex toy that fits your personal preferences and comfort level. Whether you prefer clitoral stimulators, vibrators, or dildos, each option has its particularities. It's important to start with something simple and intuitive to familiarize yourself with using toys. Clitoral Stimulators : Perfect for those who enjoy direct external stimulation, these toys are typically small and discreet, but powerful in sensation. Rabbit: They can be used for external and internal stimulation. Some models offer options for adjusting speed and vibration modes to personalize the experience. Geisha Balls : Geisha balls , also known as Kegel balls, are valuable instruments for strengthening the pelvic floor muscles. Not only can they improve the control and intensity of orgasms, but they also play a vital role in pelvic health by preventing organ descent and aiding postpartum recovery. Female masturbation: get started! To conclude this article on female masturbation, let us recall the fundamental importance of this practice in self-discovery and acceptance. Masturbation is not just an act of personal pleasure; it is also a door to a better understanding of our body and its needs, thus allowing a more fulfilling and harmonious sex life. We encourage you to explore the different techniques and products we have discussed without fear or guilt, to find what works best for you. Remember that every woman is unique, and therefore, so is every path to pleasure. Take the time to listen to each other and respond with kindness and curiosity. To go further in this personal adventure, we invite you to consult our selection of sex toys adapted to all levels of discovery. Whether you are a beginner or more experienced, you will find carefully chosen products on our site to support each stage of your personal exploration.

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Edging: test it to prolong your pleasure

In the vast universe of sexual discovery and exploration, a practice is slowly but surely emerging, captivating the attention of those in search of intensified experiences. This practice is Edging, a term borrowed from English literally meaning “to be on the edge”. But far from being a simple passing trend, Edging reveals itself as a profound exploration of sensuality and control, a delicate dance on the edge of desire. You may be wondering what makes Edging so special, why so many people are interested in it , and most importantly, how this practice could enrich your own secret garden. Edging is not only a method to intensify pleasure, it is a real invitation to reconnect with your body, to discover new facets of your sexuality and, ultimately, to reclaim your pleasure. Let yourself be tempted by this new practice and discover how Edging can transform the way you live and feel pleasure. Ready to explore the limits of your desire? Let’s lay the foundations: what is Edging? In the context of our intimacy, it is a practice where we flirt with the peak of pleasure, without crossing the threshold of orgasm, at least not immediately. Edging is this delicate art of maintaining this state of ecstasy which arrives just before orgasm, thus prolonging the experience of desire and increasing the power of the final orgasm tenfold. Concretely , the goal is to refrain from enjoying to stay in the so-called “pre-orgasmic” phase , in order to enjoy the pleasure longer. This practice presents itself today as a modern method to enrich the sexual experience, whether solo or as a couple: Solo, Edging becomes a form of erotic meditation , an opportunity to connect deeply with your body and its sensations. In the context of a relationship, it opens a space for communication and sharing, where each partner learns to read and respond to the other's signals, thus creating an extraordinary complicity and synchronicity. Edging is not only a method to intensify pleasure , it is also a path to better knowledge of yourself and your partner. Edging: why is it so good? When we explore the world of Edging, we quickly discover that its benefits go far beyond a simple intensification of pleasure. This practice, rich in nuances, offers a range of benefits both physically and psychologically, contributing to a deeper and more satisfying sexual experience. Exploring your body awareness One of the main advantages of Edging lies in its ability to reconnect us with our body . By practicing Edging, we learn to listen and interpret the signals that our body sends us , thus increasing our sensory awareness. This heightened sensitivity guides us toward a more intimate understanding of our desires and limitations, allowing us to experience pleasure in a more awake and conscious way. Increase your orgasmic sensations Edging transforms orgasm into a more intense and longer lasting experience. By delaying the moment of orgasm, we build up sexual energy which, when finally released, provides much more powerful and satisfying sensations. If you combine this with other techniques to increase your sensations such as perineal contraction, you will clearly discover a new way to do yourself good . Better control your excitement For those looking to improve their sexual stamina , Edging presents itself as an ideal exercise. By learning to control arousal and delay orgasm, practitioners can prolong sexual intercourse, thereby increasing mutual satisfaction. It is particularly beneficial for people wishing to control their ejaculation and prolong the shared pleasure. Increase emotional connection When practiced as a couple, Edging can strengthen the emotional connection between partners. This practice requires open communication and deep attention to each other's reactions, which promotes intimacy and trust. Each partner learns not only to give but also to receive pleasure in a more attentive and connected way. Edging to do alone or as a couple Edging, although deeply personal in its practice, comes in two enriching experiences: solo and as a couple. Each of these experiences offers a unique dimension of discovery and pleasure. Edging solo: learning to control your orgasm The journey of Edging often begins solo, where it transforms into an act of personal discovery and self-mastery. Practiced alone, Edging becomes a form of sensual meditation, a way to explore the confines of your pleasure, your endurance and masturbation . Solo Edging allows you to become familiar with your physical and emotional reactions to growing arousal. This is an opportunity to learn how your body responds to prolonged stimulation and how to manage the intensity of your desire. If you are a man, it can also allow you to become “multi-orgasmic” and increase your pleasure a hundredfold during intercourse. If you are a woman, practicing Edging by integrating the use of toys can also allow you to discover new ways to do yourself good. To practice this practice, we strongly recommend our clitoral stimulator . This practice helps you develop better endurance , allowing you to control and extend your pleasure sessions. This leads to more intense and satisfying orgasms, transforming each experience into a richer exploration of your sexuality. Edging as a couple: for a better connection at all levels When practiced as a couple, Edging becomes an intimate dance of communication and sharing. It is a joint exploration of the limits of pleasure, where each partner learns to read and respond to the needs of the other. Since Edging requires open and attentive communication. It is an exercise that strengthens complicity and connection, with each partner becoming more aware of the other's desires and limits. Edging as a couple allows you to discover new ways of giving and receiving pleasure. By prolonging arousal, partners share an intensified experience , resulting in synchronized, deeply connected orgasms. Edging: to improve your sexual health Edging, beyond being an enriching erotic practice, also offers significant benefits for sexual health. This subtle art of delaying orgasm is not only a path to more intense pleasures , but also a way to encourage better overall sexual health. Improved hormonal balance and well-being Impact on dopamine Edging, by delaying orgasm, plays with dopamine levels, the hormone associated with pleasure. This control can help balance hormonal responses, providing a more stable and emotionally satisfying experience. Stress and Anxiety Reduction Practicing Edging can be a great way to reduce stress and anxiety . By focusing attention on the present moment and bodily sensations, this technique helps relax the mind and body. Ejaculation control and duration of intercourse For people with penises, Edging can be particularly beneficial for improving ejaculation control . This practice helps increase stamina and extend the duration of sexual intercourse, thus providing increased satisfaction for all partners involved. A practice like Edging needs to be tested urgently! By exploring the different facets of Edging, together we discovered a practice that goes far beyond a simple method for intensifying pleasure. Edging is an invitation to self-discovery, to exploring the limits of our desire and to mastering our pleasure. It is a sensual dance with our own sensations, a subtle game where we learn to know and love each aspect of our sexuality. In any case, Edging can only do you good, that’s for sure! So try this new practice, you have nothing to lose.

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These erogenous zones that we do not know!

Erogenous zones are regions of the human body particularly sensitive to stimulation, which can provoke a sexual or erotic response. These areas vary from person to person and can be influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. What is an erogenous zone? An erogenous zone is a part of the human body particularly sensitive to stimulation, capable of provoking an erotic or sexual response. These areas have a large number of nerve endings, making them particularly receptive to touch, pressure, or other forms of stimulation. Erogenous zones are not limited to the genitals. Although these are often most associated with sexual response, other parts of the body, such as the lips, neck, ears, breasts, or even the inner thighs, can also be considered erogenous. The sensitivity of these areas can vary from person to person, and what is stimulating for one may not be for another. We are all different It is also important to note that the perception of erogenous zones can be influenced by psychological, cultural and individual factors. For example, some cultures or religions may have taboos regarding certain parts of the body, which can influence how individuals perceive and respond to stimulation of these areas. In sum, erogenous zones play a crucial role in human intimacy and sexuality, providing a multitude of avenues for exploring and increasing erotic pleasure. Classic erogenous zones Both men and women have so-called primary erogenous zones (in men, the penis, testicles, the P-spot, in women, the breasts, vulva, clitoris, vagina, etc.). Everyone agrees on these areas: they are innervated, sensitive, and when touched, they provide pleasure. However, discovering your body doesn't stop there! There are also secondary, more personal erogenous zones, which awaken according to a personality, a moment, a partner, a fantasy... The sensitivity of these areas can vary greatly from person to person, and what is stimulating for one may not be for another. Erogenous zones common to men and women Lips: One of the first areas couples explore, they are extremely sensitive to touch. Neck: Kisses, light bites or caresses can cause a strong reaction. Ears: The lobes in particular can be very sensitive to kisses or light bites. The neck: An often neglected but very sensitive area. Breasts and nipples: In some people, stimulation of the nipples can cause strong arousal. The lower back: Particularly sensitive to caresses and massages. The inside of the thighs: An area close to the genitals and therefore very sensitive. Feet: Some find foot massages or toe stimulation can be erotic. Erogenous zones specific to men The penis: Obviously, this is one of the main erogenous zones for men. The testicles: Although they are sensitive, they can be very responsive to gentle stimulation. The frenulum: The band of tissue under the glans of the penis, particularly sensitive. The Anus and Prostate: Anal stimulation can be pleasurable for some men, and the prostate is often referred to as the "male G-spot." Erogenous zones specific to women The clitoris: An extremely sensitive and often central area for female pleasure. The vulva: Includes the inner and outer lips, both sensitive to stimulation. The vagina: In particular, the area known as the "G-spot", located a few centimeters inside on the front wall of the vagina. The anus: Just like men, some women find anal stimulation pleasant. In any case, when we talk about anal stimulation , it is essential to do this with lubricant . Many of us are conscious of “classic” erogenous zones. What we don't know is that we never stop waking them up for new sensations and that... we have others, so far discreet, that could well make us go crazy tomorrow! Exploration. The original erogenous zones and to be tested urgently Some will love having their toes tickled, others will get excited when they are caressed on their stomach. And while we all have primary erogenous zones, we all have secondary zones to explore. In other words, we never get to know each other! Between the areas already explored which hide new pleasures and those which we have never approached... ecstasy is not far away! Exploration of erogenous zones We understand ourselves, we understand our partner, and we frequently experience pleasure based on our own standards . Following a familiar path is comfortable and forms our “erotic essence.” However, to explore unknown erogenous territories and feel new emotions , let's focus on sensuality and delicacy. Extensive foreplay is essential to go beyond our familiar gestures and dare to explore, solo or in a duo. When the desire intensifies and we get carried away, we touch each area of ​​our partner's body, encouraging them to do the same. Another way to immerse yourself in sensuality is through massage . Let's find a cozy place in bed, create a pleasant atmosphere, and start with mutual massages. Take his time There is no point in anticipating the intimate act that might follow: it is not the main objective and it distracts us from the present moment. Let us instead concentrate on discovering the other's body, from their back to their bust, from the bend of their arm to their neck, from their thighs to their buttocks ... An endless moment is offered Awakening your erogenous zones: advice Running your hand over a forearm… meh? Touch is an art! And to awaken an erogenous zone, let's touch differently! We use the pads of our fingers for a maximum thrill, we grab or lightly pull out our nails for a slightly wilder grip... We change our approach, our method ! And also rhythm. Faster, slower, we alternate. Without forgetting to use our mouth, very sensitive, moist, warm, which allows us to approach the nooks and crannies of our partner's body in a different way. Finally, vibrating sex toys can be real “motors”. The Goliate My Pleasure toy will be the ideal companion. Specially designed to stimulate your intimacy or that of your partner, it will vibrate on all the erogenous parts of your body with such power that certain corners of your anatomy will awaken. Communicate with your partner: the key to success It touches us, we touch it... To discover our own erogenous zones but also those of our partner, let's listen to each other and don't hesitate to communicate! When you scan your partner's body, pay attention to their reactions , their breathing, the expression on their face... You will then understand if you are on the right track. Just like he will observe you while caressing you: tell him through sounds, sighs... and that you like that. And then, words remain quite useful in addition to this non-verbal language. “I love it, try again”… By communicating, we make the ride ever more surprising, we venture together, as a couple, onto new terrain.

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THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO DEEP SPOT

The female body is made up of many erotic and erogenous zones. Today, focus on an exclusively female area that offers intense pleasure to many people when stimulated, I named the Deep Spot. G-spot, A-spot, Deep Spot: How to find your way around? The female anatomy is full of sensitive and very innervated areas which can, in many people, provide countless pleasures, all as different as each other. Only, it is sometimes difficult to navigate as their names may seem vague. Follow the guide, I explain everything from A to Z. The point G The G-Spot was named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who discovered it in the 1950s. Recently, this famous Point G was renamed Zone G because a 2022 study suggests that it would be composed of five distinct erogenous regions. These are located about two phalanges from the entrance to the vagina, on the anterior wall, in the direction of the bladder. It is also possible to identify this area by its rough texture, by placing your fingers in a hook up. Point A or Deep Spot Point A and Deep Spot… it's exactly the same thing, and it's the subject that interests us today. He means a area to situating Also In THE vagina, but GOOD deeper than Zone G, near the cervix to be exact. Rich in nerve endings, it would trigger multiple and intense orgasms in many people when stimulated. For this, it is necessary to appreciate the penetration, which is deeper (editor's note: I take this opportunity to remind you that penetration is not compulsory during a report and that it is possible to take pleasure from many others manners). How to find the Deep Spot? Located at the very bottom of the vagina, it is identifiable by its consistency which is softer to the touch than the vaginal wall. It is also important to note that it is very sensitive to pressure. Also, if you stay tuned to your body and the sensations it gives you, you will be able to identify it without too much difficulty. To do this, do not hesitate to take the time. It may seem obvious at first glance, but our daily lives are punctuated by many tasks, we can tend to forget to slow down. Sexuality is no exception to this rule and it is sometimes necessary to take time for yourself in order to (re)appropriate your body. When one wishes to discover new pleasures as is the case here, it is extremely important to be able to identify each sensation, whatever it may be. By practicing this introspection regularly, it becomes easier to get to know yourself and thus, to better understand your desires and, a fortiori, your needs. What are the sensations it provides? Each body being different, the sensations can vary from one person to another. Its stimulation can, in some women, be sufficient on its own as the point is sensitive. For others, add a clitoral stimulation will be necessary to increase this pleasure. Finally, it is important to note that these sensations can also be unpleasant. If this is the case, do not hesitate to change position before repeating the experiment. If it doesn't change how you feel, don't insist. Once again, sexuality is rich enough to be able to give pleasure without necessarily stimulating the Deep Spot. How to stimulate it? : Tips and Tricks The deep spot can be stimulated alone or in pairs. In solo, you can go for Point A if you have long fingers. Otherwise, you can use a sex toy to reach it more easily. In this regard, I advise you to use fairly long toys like the rabbit vibrator MyPleasure Plus (this can give you clitoral pleasure in addition to helping you reach the Deep Spot) or any other sex toy, vibrating or not, at least 8 cm long. In a duo, your partner can also use their upward curled fingers, a toy, or their penis. Note that certain positions facilitate its stimulation. Among them: the greyhound, the andromache, the Amazon and its variants or the anvil. Note also that sodomy can also stimulate the deep spot indirectly if you are a fan of anal sex. The precautions to take to stimulate the Deep Spot Whatever the practice to which one devotes himself, it is advisable to take precautions to limit the risks. Since Point A is in a very sensitive area, it is important first of all to gently stimulate it (at least initially) in order to avoid pain as much as possible. Also, if you have sex with a casual partner, remember to protect yourself! The best solution is still the condom. Note that you can obtain it free of charge from pharmacies with a simple prescription from your doctor. Finally, if you stimulate the Deep Spot, don't forget to wash your hands properly beforehand if you use your fingers and/or to wash your sex toys with a suitable product. I hope these few tips have helped you to see more clearly about this erogenous zone that is the Deep Spot. And don't forget, if you're not fond of penetration, non-penetrative sex is also full of practices that are sure to offer you tasty pleasures.

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13 Tips to Take Care of Your Sex

Taking care of your penis is an integral part of sex life, and yet we are rarely taught how to do it. Unfortunately, the vulva is more sensitive than the penis to inconveniences such as urinary tract infections, or flora imbalances... But hygiene rules apply to everyone! A few practical tips can ensure good hygiene while avoiding most difficulties. Take care of her vulva To wash your penis: Wash your vulva once a day, but be careful, only the external part! The vagina is self-cleaning, you should never put water or soap internally, at the risk of completely unbalancing your flora. What product to use? The ideal is to use a gentle cleansing care (without soap, without perfume) or simply clear water, according to your preference. Even if it is not necessary to buy specialized products (which are expensive and often contain perfume), avoid all the same the ultra-scented shower gels of the trade. A gentle washing care from a drugstore is ideal. Wash, yes, but not too much: wash your vulva once a day, no more! Too frequent washing can unbalance your flora. If you feel the need for refreshment during the day (for example, when you have your period) you can rinse with clear water, but without adding any product or soap. Dry your vulva well after showering, to avoid trapping moisture in this sensitive area. Wipes and deodorants are to be avoided! In addition to being useless, they are often harmful. Some advice in your sexuality Everything that comes in contact with your vulva must be clean: hand washing (/ of sextoys, penises, etc.) is compulsory before masturbation or sex. We do not go from the anus to the vulva: the anus and the rectum contain bacteria which must never come into contact with this area, at the risk of causing inconveniences such as vaginosis, mycosis or even a urinary infection. . This also applies to a passage from the anus (external) to the vulva (external), even if there has been no penetration. On the other hand, doing the opposite does not cause any problem! Go pee after sex: this reduces the risk of urinary tract infection, by removing all the small bacteria that could have lodged in your urethra. Tips for everyday life: drink plenty of water and prefer cotton underwear. With or without hair? The bristles are hygienic: they form a barrier that slightly reduces the risk of infection. The decision to keep them or remove them should depend on your desires and preferences. Bonus: look at your vulva in a mirror! This area of ​​the body is often neglected, yet getting to know yourself better is an integral part of sexual fulfillment. If you feel comfortable with this, take a small mirror (or the selfie camera of your cellphone), and look at your vulva trying to locate the different elements: clitoris, urethral meatus, inner lips ("small labia ), outer lips (“labia majora”), entrance to the vagina. Help yourself with an illustration in case of doubt. Take care of his penis Wash your penis: it should be cleaned thoroughly every day. The penis is generally less sensitive to imbalances in the flora than the vulva, so it is quite possible to use soap or shower gel to wash, even if a mild cleansing treatment remains ideal. If you don't have had a circumcision operation, don't forget to retract your penis to wash your glans. The scrotum (skin around the testicles) and anus should also be cleaned carefully. Touch your testicles: Testicular cancer is very treatable if detected early. And the best way to spot it quickly is to feel your testicles regularly! Once a month, in the shower with soapy water, use one hand to hold your testicles, and the other to feel them in search of an anomaly: small hard lump under the skin, pain, swelling... If in doubt, go quickly to consult your general practitioner. Take care of your partners: Certainly, the penis is less sensitive than the vulva to infections and imbalances. But a lack of hygiene on your part could cause an inconvenience to your partner. Taking care of your sexual health also means thinking about others by having good hygiene, providing condoms in your size, learning about what could create a problem for your partner, and consulting at the slightest signal. alert. Find the right condom: A condom that is too tight can cause loss of sensation, and a condom that is too loose is more likely to slip off during sex. A good condom fits snugly, but not too tight. If you have any doubt about your size, you can go to this website . Taking care of your sex is also... Accept its scent: The vulva and penis do not smell like roses and that's normal! As long as your hygiene is good and your smell doesn't suddenly change, there's nothing to worry about. Consult at the slightest alert: Unusual discharge, appearance of a small lump, itching, sudden change in the smell of your penis, plaques, pain, strange discharge… Any unusual signal should lead you to quickly consult your general practitioner. Most difficulties and inconveniences can be resolved easily if they are taken care of correctly. In case of problem, avoid "home remedies": Many people try to treat yeast infections or vaginosis with outlandish remedies (like putting yogurt or garlic in the vagina!). Result: more often than not, the situation worsens. Ask your doctor or gynecologist for advice before trying anything out of the ordinary to solve your problem, and don't forget that traditional medical treatments (eggs, antibiotics, etc.) are the most effective and the most sure! Protect yourself from STIs: STIs are unfortunately on the rise due to a drop in the use of protections. Using condoms and getting tested regularly are the two best ways to protect yourself! I hope these few tips will help you take care of your sex with ease.

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The perineum, or how to intensify your orgasms. Simple and efficient !

The perineum is an area of ​​skin made up of muscles and ligaments that takes the shape of a hammock. It is located between the genitals and the anus. The perineum is a fragile area which is generally taken care of very little. Most women only hear about the perineum after childbirth, when perineal re-education is needed. For some men, they only become aware of it during a prostate operation. However, strengthening the perineum has several advantages, such as: weight loss, preparation for childbirth, increased orgasmic pleasure and also delaying premature ejaculation. In addition, its toning can be done at any age. This part of the body is an area that plays a crucial role in the anatomy and sexuality of individuals. In women, it closes the abdomen and supports a number of organs in the lower abdomen. While in men, it includes the end of the digestive tract and part of the urinary and genital tracts. This area contains vital blood vessels that send blood to the genitals and nerve endings send sexual messages to the brain. Why do you need to strengthen the perineum? Issues related to sexuality In the intimacy of the two partners, the perineum allows you to have a fulfilling sexuality and contributes to the increase of sensations. If it is not firm enough, the woman is less likely to feel the penis, which means less pleasure during penetration. On the contrary, a well-muscled perineum promotes compression and ascension of the clitoris, as well as vascularization . As far as men are concerned, the perineum is just as important, because the contraction of the perineal muscles makes it possible to boost the inflow of blood into the cavernous bodies of the penis, which increases sexual arousal and guarantees erection rigidity . Moreover , it is filled with nerve endings, which makes it a particularly erogenous zone . For such a small surface of skin, the perineum can provide a lot of pleasure, taking care of it then represents a considerable complement in sexual life. Health issues A deficient perineum increases the risk of contracting what is called organ prolapse or descent, as well as perineal hypotonia. It's when the woman feels like she's gaping . On the other hand, perineal hypertonia is more and more frequent, it is the involuntary contraction of the muscles, which makes penetration difficult . For a man, it can be the cause of uncontrolled and too fast ejaculations. Besides, it helps maintain gas and bowel movements. Before and after childbirth Childbirth has negative impacts on the perineum, because the load imposed on the latter increases. This causes a relaxation and a decrease in pleasure at the time of the act. This is also the cause of the occurrence of urinary leakage. However, all these problems can be easily solved, thanks to perineal rehabilitation. However, it is best to learn how to tone it during pregnancy, in order to soften it, which will make it easier for the baby to come out. How to strengthen your perineum? There are several exercises that can strengthen your perineum. The elevator Put yourself in a lying or sitting position, and imagine that your perineum is a 4-story elevator. Gradually go up contracting the perineum a little more for each floor to be reached, while pausing when you have reached each floor. The contraction of the perineum provides a sensation that will go up towards your sternum or your chest. 1st stage: contract the muscles of the perineum for 1 second, pause and release gently; 2nd stage: contract for 2 seconds, trying to raise the pelvic floor (perineum), towards the top of the body then release slowly; 3rd stage: contract the muscles of the perineum, raising it a little further for 3 seconds, then gently release; 4th stage: contract one last time for 4 seconds and release slowly. The half bridge This is a yoga posture that helps strengthen the perineum. To do this, it is necessary to stay Lie on your back, arms along your body, legs bent and feet flat on the floor. Then take a deep breath in contracting the perineum while squeezing the buttocks and pressing down on your feet to tilt the pelvis. Finally, it's necessary Lift your buttocks off the ground by blowing for 10 seconds, then gently lower your back, unrolling your spine vertebra after vertebra. Simple daily exercises Indeed, there are simple exercises that you can perform anywhere, such as at the office, at home...During the day, remember to regularly contract your perineum for 5 seconds, then release, redo this movement ten times in a row. However, it should be noted that all exercises should be performed with an empty bladder. Otherwise, they could lead to a urinary tract infection. Finally, do not hesitate to use the famous Kegel Balls, the ideal companion to strengthen your perineum effortlessly. The perineum and sexual pleasure In the woman According to Jean Bourdin, physiotherapist and sexologist , if the perineum is well muscled, this will lead to the lubrication of the vulva, because the Bartholin glands will be emptied more easily. Moreover, its contraction reduces the vaginal orifice and tightens a third of the external part of the vagina, which will keep it firm. This promotes increased vaginal contractions and will allow more intense orgasmic pleasure, a virtuous circle beneficial for sexuality. At men's You should know that the prostate is located two inches from the rectal canal. However, stimulation of the perineum allows indirect access to it. Besides This is a particularly erogenous zone for men, as the muscles become engorged with blood during sex, so this is the best time to explore it. Whatever your gender, stimulating this area could be a great addition to your sex life, as the perineum is rich in sensitive nerve endings. Everyone is sensitive to it to some degree. Regardless of your gender, there's a range of pleasures you may have yet to explore.

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The squirting woman

Should we be afraid of it? Is it due to an anomaly? This phenomenon can arouse fear, even disgust in some people, especially because it is still misunderstood, even today. And yet, scientific research carried out by several sexologists has shown that it is a completely natural physiological reaction. Indeed, anatomically, squirting women have nothing that differentiates them from others. Moreover, Dr. Desvaux, andrologist and sexologist, had affirmed that many more women than one might think can be fountains. On the other hand, the work carried out by Dr. Cabello Santa Maria indicated that 75% of the women studied would have expelled a liquid at the time of orgasm. The progress of science has made it possible to make this phenomenon a little better known and to sweep away prejudices. Nevertheless, it is still a source of frustration for some women, because many of them still feel shame in front of their partners. Fountain women are all different from each other. Some manage to control them, while others cannot. Can all women be fountains? The phenomenon experienced by squirting women is a physiological mechanism, which implies that everyone is logically capable of it. In some women, this impressive ejaculation consisting mainly of love juice and urine is uncontrollable. In others, it is well controlled. What is reassuring is that being a fountain woman can be learned. For this, there are different possible techniques. Nevertheless, you should know that each person is different, that is to say that it is necessary to go through several phases of discovery of your body in order to find the appropriate method. On the other hand, there are several tips that can favor the mechanism, such as reaching an optimal state of relaxation, since stimulation and relaxation are the key points of this phenomenon. Several sexologists suggest that it's all about letting go and that the expulsion of this liquid is likened to a total letting go. How to achieve it? The role of the partner According to sociologist Jacques Salomé, squirting women are, for the most part, women who have found a partner who is sensitive and attentive to their sex. Indeed, to reach this state and trigger the mechanism, it is necessary to be in tune with one's body, one's sexuality and especially one's partner, so that the act is a moment conducive to relaxation and not a source of stress. For singles  It is quite possible to trigger this phenomenon by being alone. Studies made in 1950 showed that stimulation of the G-spot could be the cause of this phenomenon. There are therefore several possible techniques, such as the use of sex toys, but also the "Captain hook" technique, which consists of introducing two fingers, in the shape of a hook, into the vulva, then exerting gentle pressure on the point. G. This technique could trigger the mechanism. Is there a difference between squirting and female ejaculation? Squirting and female ejaculation are both sometimes taboo subjects. Although the two concepts may have similar characteristics, it is necessary to clarify that if all women can become squirting, not all can ejaculate. The progress of science has made it possible to lift the veil on these two phenomena, because, in reality, the mechanism of female ejaculation and that of squirting women are different. However, it is important to emphasize that the two phenomena are in no way synonymous with a more intense orgasm. The squirting woman This denomination is especially applied when a large quantity of liquid escapes during orgasm. Physical effort and intense excitement increase the heart rate, causing blood to circulate and filter more quickly, which will cause fluid to accumulate in the bladder. This will then be evacuated in the form of trickling or spurting at the time of sexual stimulation leading to orgasm. The bladder will be completely emptied after the arousal climax. After carrying out analyzes, the scientists were able to deduce that this liquid would have the chemical structure of urine, but more diluted. It is odorless, colorless and has a neutral taste, which makes it  closer to water. female ejaculation During sexual intercourse, it happens that some women release a more or less significant amount of liquid in the sex area. However, this ejaculation is different from that of squirting women, because it comes from the Skène glands which are also called female prostates. The composition of this ejaculation is close to the prostatic fluid of men. Studies have shown it to contain prostatic acid phosphatase  and fructose, both of which are present in male sperm. According to Dr. Desvaux, “all women have these glands, but they are more or less developed depending on testosterone levels and genetics. Even if this phenomenon requires stimulation to be triggered, it should be noted that ejaculation and orgasm do not always go hand in hand, because ejaculation can occur before or after excitement. Different interpretations Fountain women have long been the subject of fascination because of their rarity. Some saw them as practitioners of black magic exercising an unhealthy enjoyment of female sexuality, while others saw them as women with strong reproductive power. In India, the liquid that comes out is sometimes called "lotus nectar" or "nectar of the gods" and it was even recommended to be consumed. In Rwanda, it is considered a sacred liquid. Sociologist Janine Mossuz-Lavau noted that “their rarity made them goddesses in ancient civilizations and monsters in some cultures. In France and the United States, around the middle of the 20th century, several fountain women had surgery for urinary incontinence. This phenomenon has already been mentioned in the "kamasutra" and in the time of Hippocrates who attributed it to a seed playing an important role in procreation. However, it was not until 2007 that it was confirmed with accuracy that this is a completely natural phenomenon and that it is in no way the expression of an anomaly.

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How to let go during cunnilingus?

If cunnilingus is an erotic act, a source of pleasure, not all women love it. It all depends on the partner, the moment, the vision we have of this practice and our complexes... So how do we let go and savor it? Advice. feel clean It's silly to say, but far from being absurd. Many women fear cunnilingus for fear of smelling bad, being "a little dirty" or sweating. We live in a society that constantly hunts hair and bad odors, which is freaking good when our last shower was less than three minutes ago. The best solution, when you can't casually take a shower before sex (and you really want to), is to drag your partner into the bathroom. Underwater, the pleasure is different, more sensual, and soap is never far away. We can even ask the other to soap our sex as a preliminaries... Dare to go black! Another complex: the light is a little too bright! We often put ourselves in the place of our partner and we visualize our sex in close-up (not pretty to see, we say to ourselves). But all genders are beautiful. Sight is a sense which is not idle during love and which stimulates sexual desire. So, if we refuse that our partner slips his nose between our legs, eyes wide open on our private parts, turning off the light is a first step that allows abandonment. A small candle will suffice, for a subdued atmosphere! And if you are already in the bathroom while reading these lines, note that nothing prevents you from washing in the dark, with a trickle of light from the next room. think about yourself To abandon oneself to any sexual practice, it is good to awaken one's small part of selfishness. Often, we don't take full advantage of it, as if it were unwelcome, as if we didn't deserve this attention… Wrong. Let's dare to savor these few minutes of happiness and think of us, just of us, of this crazy goodness that we feel, of this man who caresses our sex with his tongue or a stranger that we have been fantasizing about for ages... We are free to travel. Guide your partner What if we thought we weren't into cunnilingus when only a few clumsiness on the part of our partner kept us away from pleasure? We can guide him! As long as we don't redirect him, he will think that his practice suits us. However, there is no shame in not liking the way he does it, it does not question our love for him. We can therefore, with our two free hands, replace our head, touch our sex to separate our lips otherwise, and so on. Don't wait for the miracle If there is a common mistake, which we already make with orgasm, it is to think about the result while forgetting to focus on the most important thing: our sensations! During cunnilingus, there's no need to cross your fingers while repeating "As long as it does!" ". By dint of trying to like it, we put pressure on ourselves and we miss out on the most pleasant. It is by emptying your mind and focusing on what you feel second after second that you will take your foot by surprise!

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How to stimulate the clitoris?

Sexual organ dedicated to pleasure, the clitoris has nearly 10,000 nerve endings. In other words, it can take us far, very far. Six secrets to stimulate it and experience incredible pleasure. With fingers or hand Obviously, manual stimulation is the most frequent. Whether you treat yourself to solitary pleasure or share an intimate moment, the fingers allow gentle exploration of the clitoral zone. This is an opportunity to identify her labia minora, her labia majora, the vaginal vestibule and then the clitoris itself, an infinite source of pleasure. Turning around increases the excitement, while too sudden a touch can chill. Gentleness is therefore required for a step-by-step awakening, until you feel the clitoris go into erection. Humidity is also important: you can then wet your finger, use a silicone-based lubricant or simply let the excitement increase until the vagina offers natural lubrication. As for the whole hand, it intervenes to apply very light pressure, but also to form small circles. With an erotic toy Many women use sex toys to masturbate, also within the couple. Very frequently equipped with vibrations, toys for adults offer intense sensations. Orgasm can occur very quickly, the stimulation being fast and effective. Many women play and then take a break to use their fingers again. A way to slow the rise and create more sexual tension. Sex toys are a great way to discover your body, to familiarize yourself with the rate at which pleasure builds and sets in, and then play your way along the way to climax. To stimulate your clitoris, we recommend getting started with our clitoris stimulator The Amazing! , guaranteed orgasm! By friction When young women discover their bodies and indulge in auto-eroticism, they generally rub against a soft object, such as a pillow, the mattress, even a stuffed animal. Often, they tighten the legs in order to fold the clitoris on itself, to confine it within the vulva, for more excitement. The frictions make it possible to perfectly manage the pressure, the movement and the rhythm. During sexual intercourse, you can rub against your partner's pubis, also on your thigh during foreplay. A way not to abandon her clitoris during vaginal stimulation. It is no less good, less pleasant, and is not only useful for foreplay. With the tongue Cunnilingus offers a very pleasant wet pleasure. Just as women very often enjoy clitoral pleasure in the shower, via the pressure of the water. Kissing the clitoris, licking it, is an art that is practiced gently. We choose a position in which we feel completely comfortable. We close the legs or spread them. We release the head back to surrender or we look at the scene to awaken our senses and get visually excited. Everything is allowed. The ideal is to take your time, never to rush cunnilingus, a very sensual act during which you can stimulate other erogenous zones, such as the entrance to the vagina or the breasts, by offering breaks. With the penis During foreplay or during sex, the penis can stimulate the clitoris. The glans is also very sensitive and is said to be made up of around 4000 nerve endings. This practice is a delight for both partners. Beyond the sensations experienced - the result of the encounter between two very fine body parts - the erotic dimension of this gesture promises enormous excitement. In other words, it is the very idea of ​​rubbing the glans against the clitoris that takes us into a fantasy world. We visualize the scene, or we watch it, and we become aware of being at the very heart of sexual pleasure. Via the vagina For a long time, we classified female pleasure into a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. Now, feminine pleasure is a whole.  There is "only one" orgasm, experienced differently according to the women, the hours, the circumstances, and the caresses. We then speak of external stimulation and internal stimulation. The clitoris is certainly visible, but it actually measures ten centimeters. It is made up of roots that surround the vagina. The famous G-spot, according to the latest research, would ultimately be a specific point in contact with the clitoris. Stimulating the entrance to the vagina, without much back and forth and without seeking depth, but by caressing the walls, would therefore be the way to stimulate her clitoris from another angle for overall and powerful pleasure.

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VAGINISMUS: WHAT SOLUTIONS TO GET OUT OF IT?

Due to an involuntary muscular contraction of the muscles surrounding the vagina, vaginismus makes penetration painful or even impossible. How to treat it and regain a fulfilling sex life? Our tracks.   Behind the term vaginismus, there is that of vagina. But vaginismus is not a vagina problem, nor a gynecological problem; usually the vagina is fine. Vaginismus is a sexual disorder linked to an involuntary contraction of the muscles surrounding the vagina. This contraction then prevents penetration. It's as if the vagina was closing, locking itself. Medically speaking, we distinguish partial vaginismus (at this time, the subject has no difficulty inserting a tampon, a cup, an ovum, only coital penetration is made impossible) from total vaginismus (in this case, any "intrusion" is impossible), but also primary vaginismus (always present) secondary vaginismus (which occurs later in life, when everything was going well until now). But why do the muscles of the perineum lock and how to treat vaginismus?   Fear of pain and fear of the penis When we talk about vaginismus, we are therefore talking about a reflex contraction of the muscles of the vagina: we “want” to make love, but something is blocking it, the body refuses. In question, often dyspareunia, that is to say pain during intercourse. By dint of pain, of a badly experienced penetration, the vagina chooses to close so as not to “relive” this experience. In other cases, we can evoke in the broad sense the fear of the penis, due to a distorted vision of the male sex (we imagine it very large, while we imagine its very small vagina), sexual abuse which revives in the subject a fear of suffering. We can also question the way we look at sexuality, or what we have heard about sexuality. A woman, for example, who thinks that sex is "dirty", can suffer from vaginismus insofar as she does not allow herself sexuality. Of course, all this does not mean that dyspareunia, sexual abuse, or a "negative" view of sexuality necessarily leads to vaginismus. "Practical" solutions Without saying that vaginismus is purely "in the head", it is necessary to admit, all the same, its psychological nature, so that a psychiatric follow-up can be of great help. But there are other parallel solutions to get out of it and re-tame your body. Namely, already, that vaginismus does not always prevent a fulfilling sexuality: penetration is, wrongly, the centerpiece of sexual intercourse . However, one can take pleasure in practicing a so-called "preliminary" sexuality, thanks to external caresses, in particular via stimulation of the vulva (and therefore of the glans of the clitoris), breasts, belly... This "way of doing allows women to relax, lubricate, and realize that their body is still in the game. A positive observation that is more than useful for healing. Then, specialists generally suggest taking your time: the muscles of the vagina, if they contract, do not contract for hours. During a relationship of trust, with lubricant , softness and external caresses to calm down, it is possible to “play” at the entrance to the vagina. The idea is not at all to force the passage, but to show your body, inch by inch, that it can relax. The vagina is like tights: it's when you put your leg in that it opens. Even if so, here, we won't talk about a leg (atmosphere) but a finger, then a penis. If, of course, the pain is present and the penetration impossible, we resume the sexuality of foreplay, we have fun differently, so as not to lose confidence. Finally, masturbation also remains an avenue to explore: the fear of the penis and, sometimes, the fear of a relationship that is too virulent, partly explain vaginismus. Masturbation then allows you, solo, to meet your body and reassure yourself: it's ok, it's going well. A “victory” which invites, then, to share a sexual relationship in a new dimension. If, at two, it blocks again and again, it is then necessary to take stock: what bothers me in this configuration? In the practice of penetration? Elements of response to then share with a specialist if necessary.