Blowjobs are great, but sometimes you wonder if they could be even better. With no pressure (there's no diploma for the best blowjob), here are our top tips for giving your partner more pleasure.
Our tips for a successful blowjob
Show that you like fellatio
It's by enjoying ourselves that we'll offer pleasure to our partner. Why? Because if fellatio excites us, he'll sense it and be even more excited. In other words, it's a virtuous circle.
However, let's remember that there's no point in forcing yourself: if we prefer to shun fellatio, then shun it. And if we want to learn to love it, then we take the opposite approach to what we dislike: too submissive? The man lies down, we get on top of him. Too selfish? We suggest a 69 for shared pleasure...
Don't hesitate to add more saliva.
Genitals love... moisture. A turn-on factor not to be overlooked! So discreetly, drool again and again. Or, opt for a lubricant, guaranteed effect!
We abandon mechanical gestures
Fellatio isn't a case of "in, out," otherwise you'll quickly get bored. So, you masturbate your partner with your hand, before putting your mouth back on, and so on. You can also have fun licking his penis, from the root to the glans. And then sometimes you go fast, sometimes you slow down... By changing the pace and playing, you'll both enjoy yourself.
For a successful blowjob, be careful not to bite.
A word of advice: watch out for nasty teeth that can hurt!
For an original blowjob, we change places
What if we went to the couch or the shower? We're spending a fortune paying for an apartment, so let's take advantage of it to rediscover it from a new perspective. The same goes for positions: sometimes submissive, sometimes dominant, we're having fun varying the acrobatics to give fellatio a little refresher!
Looking at your partner, the key to successful fellatio
It all depends on our level of shyness and the light in the room (yes, because in the dark, we can always look at each other, we won't see much) but a little naughty glance, or a romantic one, feels good...!
Why is it a good idea to observe during fellatio?
There are plenty of benefits, centered around partners:
- Emotional connection: Deep eye contact can strengthen the sense of intimacy and connection between partners. It's a silent way of saying, "I'm here with you, right now."
- Nonverbal Communication: The eyes can convey a multitude of emotions and desires. By observing your partner's reactions, you can better understand how they feel and adjust your actions to maximize mutual pleasure.
- Visual stimulation: For many, seeing their partner's expression of pleasure is a source of arousal in itself. This can add an extra dimension to the sensual experience.
- Building trust: Allowing yourself to be watched during such an intimate act can build trust in the relationship. It's a form of vulnerability that, when shared, can deepen the bond between partners.
- Presence: Focusing on your partner's face can help you stay grounded in the present moment, eliminating distractions and strengthening mindfulness during
Go further to succeed in fellatio
Consider anal stimulation
Fellatio can also be a good time to test anal stimulation on your male partner.
For that, here is our advice:
- Ask him if it's okay to consider anal stimulation
- Find yourself an anal relaxant
- Be gentle
Next, your role will be to take it slow. Your partner can gently lie on their back and raise their legs. While you're performing oral sex, you can gently lower your finger, lubricated please, towards their anus and begin caressing.
Doing good at the same time
Stimulating your clitoris while performing oral sex can increase the pleasure you feel tenfold. This combination of actions offers a multisensory experience, where the pleasure you give is simultaneously received.
By stimulating the clitoris, a highly erogenous zone, while focusing on the pleasure of your partner, you create a sensual harmony that amplifies the intimacy of the moment.
This not only enriches the experience for the one performing fellatio, but also adds an emotional and erotic dimension for the partner watching. This synchronization of pleasures can strengthen the couple's complicity and make the overall experience
Dressing up to succeed at fellatio
To take it to the next level, it's also fun to perform fellatio while dressed up. You can choose from a variety of costumes that are accessible, even for beginners:
- Dressing up as a sexy bunny : inspired by Playmates, it's extremely sexy.
- Dressing up as a schoolgirl: for a truly innocent look
- Dressing up as a maid: to intensify the submissive side
- Dress up with whatever you have on hand, just for fun
You now have all the keys to achieving a fantastic blowjob, enjoying yourself and giving your all!
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