Through my work, I receive a lot of questions related to masturbation and I realize that this practice is much more taboo than we think while being stuffed with prejudices, which does not help to move forward on the question. Today, I suggest that you dispel preconceived ideas to redefine the vision that we have of this solitary practice at the start (but which can very well be part of life as a couple) and to go through the best ways to masturbate, including through the use of lubricant .
Is masturbation normal?
The answer is yes ! Yes 100%! The same way it's OK not to masturbate. Indeed, not everyone feels the desire or the need. This non-envy can present itself punctually or over the longer term. Anyway, it is important to ignore the injunctions to tend towards more respect for oneself.
Masturbation is a privileged moment and many people make the mistake of comparing it with a relationship between two people. We can never repeat it enough: the pleasure taken is different, the feeling is different, the mechanics and the desire are also different.
Indeed, most of the time and by way of example, it requires less energy. You just need to be tired or have a heavy mental load for this desire to take over. Also, masturbation allows you to give yourself a moment of pleasure the way you want and at the pace you want. I assure you, there is absolutely nothing wrong with preferring masturbation to sex from time to time. It is simply human and many of us think this way.
Also, it is important to note that masturbation is not synonymous with betrayal or dissatisfaction or deception. It is part of the time we take for ourselves in the same way as reading or leisure time, for example. Beyond that, it allows you to reconnect with your body, to get to know it and to feel it. In addition, she can be a good ally when you experience a discordance of libido within the couple, but also a game partner for two! Eh yes ! You can very well share a moment of pleasure by masturbating in front of each other or by masturbating each other.
Masturbating with lube: the guide
The benefits of masturbating with lube
Using lubricant makes masturbation smoother and more enjoyable. In addition, it helps reduce pain in case of dryness in the intimate area. It is therefore essential to choose a good lubricant to apply to the genitals to achieve unparalleled pleasure. As such, I particularly recommend the Glisse Sensuelle lubricating gel from Goliate. In addition to having a long-lasting effect, it is organic, vegan and 100% French! A must have made with more than 99% natural ingredients! In short, everything we love!
Penis masturbation with lube
For a successful penis masturbation, do not hesitate to pour a dab of lubricant in the palm of your hand. You can, according to your affinities, add a little more for an increased feeling of sliding. Then, apply it over the entire length of the penis, from the base to the top of the glans. The lubricant will heat up quickly by the back and forth movements that you will exercise.
For even greater pleasure, do not hesitate to make slow and ample movements for long minutes by sliding your penis in your hand. You can also dwell on the glans + brake combo to vary the pleasures.
When masturbating, do not hesitate to add lubricant whenever you see fit. The sensations generated by the glide and the humidity provided by the lubricant will be even better!
Finally, be aware that water-based lubricants are also compatible with sex toys (unlike silicone-based lubricants which are to be avoided with toys that are also made of silicone!). If you have some available and if the desire is present, do not hesitate to use them to make this moment unique!
Clitoris masturbation with lube
For clitoral masturbation full of pleasure, pour a dab of lubricant on your fingertips and gently apply it to your clitoris in circular motions. In this way, you will also lubricate part of the vulva and avoid irritation linked to friction if you masturbate with your fingers.
If you have an appetite for penetrative masturbation, you can also put a little lubricant inside the vagina to stimulate the G-zone or any other area likely to give you pleasure (you know yourself better than anyone, do you trust!).
Finally, know that you can also use the sex toy of your choice - a clitoral stimulator for example - to increase the pleasure felt or if you simply want to take pleasure with less effort (sex toys are also there for that and we're not going to complain about it!).
The precautions to take
Since your hands are in contact with the private parts, remember to wash them properly with soap and warm water before your masturbation session.
If you use lubricant, despite its 100% natural composition, always remember to test it beforehand on an area of your skin (excluding the intimate area) to make sure that you are not allergic to it.
Normally, there shouldn't be a problem, but you can never be too careful.
Finally, consider filing your nails to avoid injury, especially if you plan to use your fingers for penetration. As you will have understood, masturbation is a very healthy and very pleasant practice. Masturbation with lube is even better! So don't hesitate to use it, even during your intercourse to make it even more pleasant, more fluid and less painful for some of you!