Through my work, I receive a lot of questions related to masturbation and I realize that this practice is much more taboo than we think, while being full of prejudices, which does not help to move forward on the issue.
Today, I suggest we debunk preconceived ideas to redefine the vision we have of this initially solitary practice (but which can very well fit into the life of a couple) and to explore together the best ways to masturbate, in particular through the use of lubricant .
Is masturbation normal?
The answer is yes! Yes, 100%!
Just as it's okay not to masturbate, not everyone feels the urge or the need to do so. This lack of desire can be temporary or long-term. Regardless, it's important to ignore these injunctions and strive for greater self-respect.
Masturbation is a special moment , and many people make the mistake of comparing it to intercourse between two people. We can't stress this enough: the pleasure derived is different, the feeling is different, the mechanics and the desire are also different.
Indeed, most of the time, for example, it requires less energy. You only need to be tired or have a heavy mental load for this urge to take over.
Masturbation, pleasure for oneself
Also, masturbation allows you to give yourself a moment of pleasure in the way you want and at the pace you want . I reassure you, there is absolutely nothing abnormal in preferring masturbation to intercourse from time to time. It is simply human and many of us reason this way.
It's also important to note that masturbation isn't synonymous with betrayal, dissatisfaction, or even deception. It's part of the time we take for ourselves, just like reading or leisure time, for example. Beyond that, it allows us to reconnect with our bodies, to learn to know them, and to feel them.
Masturbation for more libido
In addition, it can be a good ally when experiencing a discordance of libido within the couple, but also a play partner for two! Yes! You can very well share a moment of pleasure by masturbating in front of each other or by masturbating each other.
Masturbating with Lube: The Guide
The Benefits of Masturbating with Lube
Using lubricant makes masturbation smoother and more enjoyable. It also helps reduce pain in cases of dryness in the intimate area. Therefore, choosing a good lubricant to apply to your genitals is essential for unparalleled pleasure. In this regard, I recommend Goliate's Glide Sensuelle lubricating gel.
In addition to having a long-lasting effect, it's organic, vegan, and 100% French! A must-have made with over 99% natural ingredients! In short, everything we love!
Penis masturbation with lubricant
For successful penis masturbation, don't hesitate to pour a small amount of lubricant into the palm of your hand. You can, depending on your preferences, add a little more for a more gliding sensation. Then, apply it along the entire length of the penis, from the base to the tip of the glans. The lubricant will quickly warm up with the back-and-forth movements you use.
For even greater pleasure, don't hesitate to make slow, sweeping movements for several minutes, sliding your penis into your hand. You can also focus on the glans + frenulum combo to vary the pleasures.
When masturbating, don't hesitate to add more lube whenever you feel like it's time to reapply. The sensations created by the glide and the moisture provided by the lube will be even better!
Finally, be aware that water-based lubricants are also compatible with sex toys (unlike silicone-based lubricants, which should be avoided with silicone toys too!). If you have some available and if you feel like it, don't hesitate to use them to make this moment unique!
Clitoral masturbation with lubricant
For pleasurable clitoral masturbation, pour a small amount of lubricant onto your fingertips and gently rub it over your clitoris in circular motions. This will also lubricate part of your vulva and prevent irritation from chafing if you masturbate with your fingers.
If you have a taste for penetrative masturbation, you can also put a little lubricant inside the vagina to stimulate the G-spot or any other area likely to give you pleasure (you know yourself better than anyone, trust yourself!).
Finally, know that you can also use the sex toy of your choice - a clitoral stimulator for example like The Amazing - to increase the pleasure felt or if you simply want to experience pleasure with less effort (sex toys are also there for that and we're not going to complain!).
Precautions to take
Since your hands are in contact with your intimate areas, remember to wash them properly with soap and warm water before your masturbation session.
If you use lubricant, despite its 100% natural composition, always remember to test it first on an area of your skin (excluding the intimate area) to ensure that you are not allergic to it.
Normally, there shouldn't be any problems, but you can never be too careful.
Finally, remember to file your nails to avoid injuries, especially if you plan to use your fingers for penetration. As you can see, masturbation is a very healthy and enjoyable practice. Masturbation with lubricant is even better! So, don't hesitate to use it, even during intercourse to make it even more enjoyable, smoother, and less painful for some of you!
