The female body is made up of numerous erotic and erogenous zones. Today, we're focusing on an exclusively female area that many people experience intense pleasure when stimulated: the Deep Spot.
G-spot, A-spot, Deep Spot: How to find your way around?
The female anatomy is full of sensitive and highly innervated areas that can, in many people, provide countless pleasures, each as different as the next.
However, it can be difficult to navigate them all, as their names can seem confusing. Follow the guide, and I'll explain everything from A to Z.
The G-spot
The G-spot was named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who discovered it in the 1950s.
Recently, this famous G-spot was renamed the G-Zone because a 2022 study suggests it's composed of five distinct erogenous regions. These are located about two phalanges from the entrance of the vagina, on the anterior wall, towards the bladder. It's also possible to identify this area by its rough texture, by placing your fingers in an upward hook.
Point A or Deep Spot
Point A and Deep Spot … they’re exactly the same thing, and that’s what interests us today.
It refers to an area also located in the vagina, but much deeper than the G-Zone, near the cervix to be precise. Rich in nerve endings, it is said to trigger multiple and intense orgasms in many people when stimulated.
To do this, you have to enjoy penetration, especially deep penetration (editor's note: I would like to take this opportunity to remind you that penetration is not obligatory during intercourse and that it is possible to enjoy it in many other ways).
But why… Deep Spot?
The deep spot is located near the cervix, or "at the very end" as its name suggests. This point is actually divided into two very sensitive points, on either side of the cervix: the " front deep spot " and the " back deep spot ." But why talk about front and back? The cervix "sinks" slightly into the vagina, which is inclined and aims at the lower back. Thus, two small cul-de-sacs exist.
How to find the Deep Spot?
Located deep inside the vagina, it's identifiable by its softer feel than the vaginal wall. It's also important to note that it's very sensitive to pressure. Also, if you listen to your body and the sensations it gives you, you'll be able to identify it without too much difficulty.
Why find it?
Deep spot stimulation (front or back, as you prefer) is said to cause extremely powerful orgasms. You could discover new pleasures and amazing vaginal sensations! Or not: a matter of taste and color... Not all women will be sensitive to it in the same way.
In any case, don't stress or pressure yourself: whether you find it or not, whether you like it or not, your sex life doesn't end there. Know that your body is full of areas that are just as interesting and exciting.
Our tips for finding the Deep Spot
To do this, don't hesitate to take the time. This may seem obvious at first, but since our daily lives are punctuated by numerous tasks, we can tend to forget to slow down.
Sexuality is no exception to this rule, and it is sometimes appropriate to take time for yourself to (re)appropriate your body. When you want to discover new pleasures, as is the case here, it is extremely important to know how to identify each sensation, whatever it may be. By practicing this introspection regularly, it becomes easier to get to know yourself and thus, to better understand your desires and, a fortiori, your needs.
What sensations does it provide?
Since every body is different, sensations can vary from one person to another. For some women, stimulation can be enough on its own because the spot is so sensitive. For others, adding clitoral stimulation will be necessary to increase this pleasure. Finally, it is important to note that these sensations can also be unpleasant. If this is the case, do not hesitate to change positions before repeating the experience. If this does not change what you feel, do not insist. Once again, sexuality is rich enough to be able to grant oneself pleasure without necessarily stimulating the Deep Spot.
Tips and tricks: how to stimulate it?
The deep spot can be stimulated alone or with someone else.
Solo, you can go for Point A if you have long fingers.
Otherwise, you can use a sex toy to reach it more easily. In this regard, I advise you to use fairly long toys like the My Pleasure rabbit vibrator (this one can give you clitoral pleasure in addition to helping you reach the Deep Spot) or any other sex toy, vibrating or not, with a length of at least 8 cm.
In a duo, your partner can also use their upwardly curved fingers, a toy, or their penis.
Note that certain positions facilitate its stimulation. Among them: doggy style, the andromache, the amazon and its variations or even the anvil. Note also that sodomy can also stimulate the deep spot indirectly if you are a fan of anal sex .
Precautions to take when stimulating the Deep Spot
Whatever practice one engages in, precautions should be taken to limit the risks.
Since Point A is located in a very sensitive area, it is important to first stimulate it gently (at least initially) in order to avoid pain as much as possible .
Also, if you have sex with a casual partner , don't forget to protect yourself! The best solution is still a condom. Note that you can get them for free at the pharmacy with a simple prescription from your doctor.
Finally, if you stimulate the Deep Spot, don't forget to wash your hands properly beforehand if you use your fingers and/or wash your sex toys with a suitable product.
And what next?
I hope these tips have helped you gain a clearer understanding of the erogenous zone that is the Deep Spot. And don't forget, if you're not a fan of penetration, non-penetrative sex is also full of practices that are sure to provide you with delicious pleasures.