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We test! Slow sex or how to connect to pleasure

The slow trend is everywhere - slow cosmetics, slow food, slow fashion... - and now in our beds, with slow sex. Its goal ? Make love more slowly in order to better connect to our sensations. Pleasure tenfold and guaranteed! We tell you how to do it. Why try slow sex? Because we tend to run, even to rush. Sex is often starter main course dessert. Why not: we know what we like, we know the body of the other and its areas of pleasure. We also know our own body, the positions that suit us. This achievement is not bad, the routine either, it is a way to meet, in the evening, to enjoy together. But there is a way to rediscover yourself to dare new sensations: slow sex. Which consists of taking your time in order to better connect with others, with emotions, to be more in the moment than in the orgasm to come. In other words, slow sex comes down to taking advantage of the path that leads to enjoyment. To connect better… we disconnect first! In order to connect to the body of the other but also to one's own body, it is good to approach the sexual exchange as a tender moment, without parasitic thoughts, without cell phone ringing, without TV in the background... We prepare our atmosphere, one that invites us to relax. No pressure, no urgency, we are only there to share an embrace full of sensuality, to survey a body that we love but that we always look at from the same angle, under the same light. We tell ourselves that our worries can wait in the closet for an hour or two, and we are then completely available. The report will not be quickly done well, it will be slow and in full consciousness, for the pleasure of being there, together, ready to share a thousand sensations! How do we do it, concretely? Once our cozy room is waiting for us, slow sex is all about braking! No rush: we take our time. We first kiss for a long time (to forget the kisses, very erotic?), we undress millimeter by millimeter, we concentrate on the effect of a garment that escapes us and on the skin of the other, that we go through with our fingertips. We dare massages, caresses, on sometimes abandoned areas: the lower back? Neck ? The whole body is potentially erogenous, so why not take a slow walk? And always, we ask ourselves the question: what do I feel here? When his hands graze my chest? We activate our five senses: what touch tells us, but also our sense of smell, our hearing, our sight and our taste. Thus – and it's magic – we forget this duty of performance and enjoyment which sometimes leads us to think about “afterwards”, about what “must be done”, about what “the other is waiting for”. On the contrary, we fully live the moment because we take the time to enter into it, to dissect it, to magnify it. And when the orgasm comes many minutes later, it surprises us. And it is more intense. Try it with a square of chocolate: taste it slowly, look at it before that, breathe it in, feel it vibrate in your mouth… Isn't it better than swallowing it in a hurry after a coffee? To you !

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A short guide to getting started with sex toys

Have you never used sex toys but are curious to get started? Our advice for getting started with confidence (and a lot of fun). Sex toys are not reserved for single people or for those who encounter sexual difficulties and feel the need to be supported in the discovery of their body. Indeed, sex toys are for everyone, whether you are alone or in a couple, and whatever your desires. Our advice for choosing the right sex toy when starting out. I question my desire Before getting a sex toy, you can think about what attracts you to this new adventure. Want to get to know your body better? To meet a specific organ more intimately, such as the clitoris or the prostate? A desire to approach new orgasms, or to have fun with your partner or partners? Answering these questions will guide you in your choice, especially since GOLIATE offers you a menu based on your "desire": it is your desires that lead you to sex toys, and that is ideal! I choose an accessible sex toy that appeals to me "Don't have your eyes bigger than your stomach", we sometimes hear. It works a little with toys: no need, when you take your first steps, to buy a huge vibrator or order 17 sex toys. The important thing is to choose one that resonates with your desire and that responds to your approach and your vision of sexuality. I use water-based lube We cannot repeat it enough, but lube is not an option. Let's say that humidity is a guarantee of pleasure and comfort, which is why the vagina and penis become moist during sexual arousal. A water-based lubricant, such as our Sensual Glide Gel, will therefore go wonderfully with the use of a sex toy by providing softness and fluidity. I wash my sex toy well before and after use On the hygiene side now, we note that it is good to wash your sex toy before and after use. How ? No dishwasher or strange products. We opt for a classic soap with a little water, and we wipe the toy by dabbing it in a towel. Otherwise, GOLIATE markets an organic, vegan cleaner and disinfectant, made in France, which takes care of toys and extends their lifespan.

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5 Ways to revisit good old missionary

 Sexual position known to all and ultra-comfortable, the missionary is neither boring nor drowsy. It is enough to revisit it to be convinced of its charm and take a crazy pleasure. Our advices. In a heterosexual configuration, the missionary position looks like this: the woman is lying on her back and the man is lying on top of her to penetrate her. Simple ? Maybe. But comfortable and a guarantee of pleasure! To go further, this classic and routine-looking missionary can be revisited. What to do to boost it? Extract all its erotic potential? Achieve more surprising orgasms? Our ideas. A missionary… with a cushion In this first variant, the woman places a cushion at the level of her lower back, or in the lower back. The cushion should be small (no need to bring a huge pillow, which would be more cumbersome than anything else!). It allows you to gently arch your back for a new angle of penetration. GOLIATE loves because missionary is a comfortable position, and missionary with a cushion is an even more comfortable position! And comfort is far from being incompatible with pleasure, on the contrary. A missionary… at the edge of the bed And if we proposed to his missionary to… slide slightly? The partners can approach the edge of the bed: the woman puts her feet on the ground (while she is lying down) and the man penetrates her. This position is almost an inverted replica of the missionary with a cushion, since this time the woman does not arch and the angle of penetration is the opposite of the previous variant. GOLIATE loves because being on the edge of the bed adds spice and a big touch of eroticism to the missionary. A missionary… legs up The advantage of the missionary with the legs raised is that it offers the possibility of varying the angle of penetration as you wish, and every two minutes if you wish! For this, the woman spreads her legs in the air. During penetration, the man can feel a lot of pleasure and ease as the opening of the legs fluidifies the meeting and the fusion. GOLIATE loves because raising the legs can be done whenever desired. Nothing prevents returning to a more classic missionary the next moment. This movement of the legs thus invites all the variants and all the pleasures. The missionary… who rolls up Here, the raised legs close around the partner's torso, which then becomes enveloped. By being attached to her partner, the woman follows the movement of penetration all the more. This position allows both partners to be one and to go further in pleasure. GOLIATE loves because this is the time to slow down the back-and-forth penetration and play with circular penetration. The moment rhymes with fusion and the partner can, with his penis, caress the vaginal walls of his partner. The missionary… merry-go-round style Once in place, the missionary can get on the big merry-go-round of pleasure and surprise. Why stay on top of each other, without trying to lose the north? Thus, we can roll, end up on the side, or reverse the roles. By being on top of her partner, the woman is in a position that reminds us of the Andromache, but when she keeps her legs a minimum closed and does not straighten up, we are in a reverse missionary! GOLIATE loves because turning and playing with his missionary, we take a crazy pleasure to return to the starting missionary. It looks like a break, an accomplice moment when you catch your breath. It's exquisite.

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The CAT method to increase pleasure

The CAT method, for coital alignment technique, is played during penetration and more particularly the position of the missionary. Thanks to it, women can discover new sensations and more intense orgasms. Penetrative sex has many qualities, but it also has a flaw: by dint of back and forth, female pleasure sometimes feels sidelined. Indeed, several studies show us that penetration alone is not ideal for reaching orgasm. That doesn't mean it should be avoided, just that dual stimulation – including vulvar and clitoral caresses – is welcome. And the CAT method – CAT for coital alignment technique – is used: this practice offers both partners the opportunity to leave the usual penetrative patterns and reinvent penetration for more pleasure and fusion. How do we do ? We stick together and we dance languidly! To practice the CAT method, we… penetrate ourselves (to begin with). But this time, we leave our habits. Rather than coming and going (we know), we play our pools and undulate together. For this, the partner, placed above, lies down on his partner. If he shouldn't crush it (that would be a shame), he shouldn't hesitate to slouch a little, the idea being to be very close and glued. The partner below will straighten her legs and not spread them much apart. The important thing to remember is that the two bodies are thus aligned. And they must be aligned, as the name of the technique specifies. Then we move our bodies. In other words, we squirm. A practice that invites the stimulation of the vaginal walls (often neglected when it comes to going straight to the bottom of the tunnel) and the vulva, since the pubis are in contact. And we know that the glans of the clitoris, which is located at the top of the vulva, likes to be part of it! The other advantage of this method is that it is extremely sensual. We take the opportunity to look each other in the eye and measure all the happiness of being with each other, finally one inside the other.