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The secrets of the multi-orgasmic man: we tell you everything!

We always hear about premature ejaculation, but very little about multiorgasm. It must be admitted that the first case turns out to be a real hassle for men. This situation sometimes even requires treatment. On the other hand, reaching the point of no return repeatedly is still quite an achievement. Some manage it quite easily, while others still need to know the secrets to soak up this art. In a few words, the idea is to know how to put oneself perfectly in symbiosis with the sexual zones of the body. In the end, this boon is within everyone's reach. Only, you have to do your part. Have an orgasm without ejaculation Multiorgasm can be done with or without ejaculation in a single intercourse. It must be said that the prospect of reaching the climax of sexual pleasure in several times without having to take a break is the dream for more than one man. However, some succeed with a few minutes or seconds of downtime in between. In this case, we speak of sequential type multiorgasm. Between two orgasms is the refractory period, this period of time during which the excitement escapes. Normally, it occurs after ejaculation. Its duration varies from one person to another, depending on age, physical condition and of course the intensity of pleasure. The shorter it is, the more the man in question can discover several pleasures. In any case, refraining from ejaculating increases the chances of getting there since seminal losses are the cause of the decline in erection. This is because of the amount of energy required for sperm production. Whatever happens, it goes without saying that it is a sine qua non for the continuity of the action, in other words, of sexual performance. Women are one step ahead Compared to men, women are more likely to have this experience. First big difference, they do without the refractory period. Therefore, they remain "operational" and aroused even after a raging orgasm. Some even manage to increase the pace after the first spasm of pleasure in order to reach seventh heaven. In their opposite, the desire tends to fade away little by little once the sperm has been evacuated, even when indulging in new stimulations. Moreover, more than one feel a certain sensation of pain or discomfort from insisting. Although in one case as in the other, the next orgasm can point the tip of his nose only when the antics undertaken allow it. In question, all the erogenous zones do not produce the same effects. Men are less likely to be affected. To be precise, they represent 6% of the sexually active male population against 20% among women. The fact remains that it is possible to match the prowess of the fairer sex under certain conditions. Discovering the power of the pubococcygeus muscle As you will have understood, the penis becomes relatively sensitive after ejaculation. In this case, how to hold back while fully savoring your orgasm? It should be known that this one slightly precedes the spilling of sperm. Everything happens at this interval. Hence the intervention of the pubococcygeal muscle, the famous PC. It is located in the perineum region, more precisely along the pubic bone to the coccyx. This muscle takes care of everything that happens between the testicles and the anus. When a man interrupts the urine, it's up to the PC to take care of it. The same goes for the seminal liquor. However, its effectiveness depends on everyone. The more it is reinforced, the more the person is likely to experience success on this side. This is the point of the exercises that follow. Train to get there Becoming multiorgasmic is a faculty that remains assimilable with exercises. At the same time, the aforementioned 6% are able to take advantage of this privilege without having to make special efforts. Fortunately, the related training allows all men, or almost, to be on the same pedestal. Masturbation is an excellent exercise before getting into practice. Instead of ejaculating, use the PC muscle to hold yourself back. However, the penis should not be stimulated once the contractions specific to orgasm are felt. Depending on the case, a short break follows this moment or not before resuming auto-erotism to reach another orgasm. So on until ejaculation. At first it will be difficult to repress the ecstasy, but the body gets used to it and begins to enjoy it over time. In addition, the feeling is much more pleasant being with a partner. Other activities are needed before you can master the technique to perfection. Breathing is part of it. To do this, sit in a comfortable position with your hands on your stomach. Inhale and exhale calmly and intensely for a few minutes. This will make it easier to control yourself during sex. At this time, you must know perfectly your state of arousal before and after the first orgasm. Be careful, if you don't succeed, it can be a source of frustration not only for you, but also for your partner. So stay patient, and then after all, keep in mind that getting there isn't an end in itself either! Don't overdo it When you succeed in crossing this milestone, sex will be seen from a whole new angle. If usually, enjoying is characterized by a note of stealth, this ability allows you to better focus on pleasure and not sex itself. With this activity, the sensations of ecstasy provided last longer. In addition, they are inevitably more intense. This is explained not only by the presence of several orgasms, but also by the prolonged duration of the report. At the same time, a man with this ability succeeds in satisfying his lover even more. Unfortunately, being multiorgasmic does not only have advantages. By dint of looking for new performances, both physical and relational problems can be caused. Among the most likely risks is long-term ejaculatory dysfunction. Reason why it is never advisable to abuse it. Letting go is a must from time to time.

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Slow sex or how to connect to pleasure!

The slow trend is everywhere - slow cosmetics, slow food, slow fashion... - and now in our beds, with slow sex. Its goal? To make love more slowly in order to better connect with our sensations. Pleasure increased tenfold and guaranteed! We tell you how to practice it. S low Sex: The Art of Intimate Connection At Goliate, we believe that intimate fulfillment is essential for a balanced and happy life. In this quest for harmony, SlowSex presents itself as an invitation to rediscover sensuality at a peaceful pace. Far from rushing and performing, SlowSex advocates an intimacy based on connection, communication and awareness. Slow Sex is about taking the time to feel every sensation, to explore every corner of your body and that of your partner. It is a sensual dance where every movement is deliberate , every touch is savored. In this approach, quality takes precedence over quantity. It is not only about the act itself, but everything that surrounds it: the foreplay, the caresses, the glances exchanged. And because at Goliate, we are convinced that respect for oneself and one's partner is essential, Slow Sex fits perfectly into our philosophy. It encourages a healthy, respectful and committed sexuality, where each individual is an actor in their pleasure and that of their partner. So, are you ready to slow down and rediscover the joys of deep, connected intimacy? Embark with us on this sensual adventure and discover SlowSex, for a fulfilling and respectful intimate life. Why try Slow Sex ? Because we tend to rush, or even rush. The importance of routine and familiarity Why try Slow Sex? In our hectic lives, we often get caught up in the whirlwind of routines. Sex is no exception. Often, our lovemaking follows a predictable pattern: starter, main course, dessert . This familiarity has its advantages. We know what works, we know the contours and secrets of our partner's body, and we are comfortable with what gives us pleasure. This routine is reassuring, a moment of reunion after a long day, a way to connect and share a moment of pleasure. Rediscovery and immersion: the magic of slow sex However, there is one dimension of sexuality that often remains unexplored: rediscovery. Slow Sex offers this opportunity. It’s about slowing down, taking the time to really feel every sensation, every thrill. Instead of focusing on the destination – the orgasm – Slow Sex invites us to enjoy the journey. It's a total immersion in the present moment, a chance to reconnect with your partner in a deep and meaningful way. By practicing Slow Sex, we learn to value the quality of intimate moments rather than their quantity, to savor every touch, every look, every breath. It is an invitation to rediscover your partner, your own body, and the countless ways of giving and receiving pleasure. To connect better… we disconnect first! In order to connect to the other's body but also to one's own body, it is good to approach sexual exchange as a tender moment, without parasitic thoughts, without a ringing cell phone, without TV in the background... We prepare our atmosphere, the one that invites us to relax. No pressure, no urgency, we are only there to share an embrace full of sensuality, to explore a body that we love but that we always look at from the same angle, under the same light. We tell ourselves that our worries can wait in the closet for an hour or two, and then we are completely available. The report will not be done quickly and well, it will be slow and in full awareness, for the pleasure of being there, together, ready to share a thousand sensations! Our advice for getting started with SlowSex Once our cozy room awaits us, slow sex is all about putting the brakes on! No rush: take your time. We first kiss for a long time (to forget the kisses, very erotic?), we undress each other millimeter by millimeter, we concentrate on the effect of a piece of clothing that escapes us and on the skin of the other, which we run over with our fingertips. We take our time We dare to massage, to caress, on areas that are sometimes abandoned : the lower back? The neck? The whole body is potentially erogenous , so why not walk slowly? And always, we ask ourselves the question: what do I feel there? When his hands brush my chest? We activate our five senses: what touch tells us but also our smell, our hearing, our sight and our taste. We enjoy the moment So – and it's magic – we forget this duty of performance and enjoyment which sometimes leads us to think about "afterwards", about what "we must do", about what "the other expects". On the contrary, we live the moment fully because we take the time to enter it, to dissect it, to magnify it. And when the orgasm arrives many minutes later, it surprises us. And it is more intense. Try it with a square of chocolate: savor it slowly, look at it before that, breathe it, feel it vibrate in your mouth… Isn’t it better than swallowing it quickly after a coffee? Now it's up to you to test this fabulous adventure by taking your time... And it will even be an excellent time to test toys, like our favorite when you want some peace and quiet: The Amazing !

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Why submission excites?

What is sexual submission? Sexual submission refers to an erotic dynamic or role in which one person willingly submits to the will of another. It can be expressed in a variety of ways and vary in intensity, from light role play to more intense BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) practices . Important Rules in Sexual Submission Here are some key points to understand about sexual submission: Consent: Sexual submission is based on mutual consent. This means that all parties involved agree to the dynamics and activities being practiced. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Communication: Open communication is essential to establish boundaries, discuss desires, and ensure all parties feel safe and respected. Roles: In a submission dynamic, there is usually a dominant partner (or "dom") and a submissive partner (or "sub"). These roles can be constant or interchangeable depending on the preferences of the participants. Practices: Submission can include a variety of activities, such as bondage, discipline, sensory deprivation, servitude, etc. The exact activities depend on the preferences and limitations of the participants. Safety: Safety is paramount. Many BDSM practitioners follow the "SSC" (Sane, Safe, and Consensual) or "RACK" (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) principle to ensure that practices are consensual and performed safely. Psychology: For some, submission is an emotional release or a way to explore aspects of their personality in a controlled environment. For others, it can be an expression of their identity or deep desires. Respect and well-being: Even though the dynamics can involve power play, mutual respect is essential. After a session, it is common to practice “aftercare”, a moment of care and comfort to ensure that all participants feel comfortable and safe. Sexual submission is a choice, not an obligation. It is important to note that sexual submission, like all sexual practices, is a matter of personal choice. As long as it is practiced consensually and respectfully, it can be a healthy and fulfilling expression of sexuality. Testimonies on Sexual Submission Many people enjoy domination-submission relationships with a preference for second place. Why is the submissive role in a couple's game exciting? Explanations and advice on how to indulge in it. Why test sexual submission? "By forcing me to follow him, my partner is forcing me to let go." "It's only when Erwan takes the lead that I don't think about anything. I let him do it, I obey him, my head empties," confides Elodie, 30. While sex helps many of us to disconnect, you still have to surrender completely. Submission requires not taking any initiative, in other words, no longer controlling anything. The very definition of letting go, which we experience in life as in bed, with more or less success. As soon as we no longer decide on the next caress and let ourselves be guided without thinking, we welcome pleasure more easily. Our brain is disconnected, we are attentive to each word, each gesture, so that our sensations are more intact, therefore more pleasant, as Marjorie, 26, testifies: "If my partner touches my sex by putting his hand on my mouth and pulling my hair, I get off three times more. I like the constraint, I feel like a fragile and vulnerable little thing. By forcing me to follow her, my partner forces me to let go. I can't hold on to anything. This position of inferiority is exciting for me because all the sensations are increased tenfold." Sexual submission is also a great way to try Dirty Talk . The unknown, the pleasure of submission "Not knowing if he's going to touch my breasts or my butt feels terribly good" By playing the submissive, we let the other person lead the way in our pleasure. How can we predict whether he or she will touch us or bite us? Kiss us or turn us around? Surprises come one after another, especially if we blindfold ourselves. "I like domination-submission relationships blindfolded," says Simon, 32. "I don't know what to expect. My girlfriend decides and every initiative she makes is a surprise, which gives me more pleasure. I'm facing the unknown and it puts me in a crazy state!" A feeling that Marjorie shares. Because if pleasure comes from letting go and losing control, it is also found in the impossibility of anticipating. "My partner plays hot, cold, he sets the tone of the relationship. Not knowing if he is going to touch my breasts or my buttocks, offer me his penis or force me to masturbate is terribly good. As if the fact of being just as much of an actress took away part of my excitement because the relationship becomes predictable. When we are not playing, I like to know how I am going to touch him or whisper to him what I like but in the surprise, my body jumps, each gesture is crazier." Sexual submission but also domination "By submitting, I dominate him" Domination-submission relationships take the form of a game. The couple chooses each person's role together. The framework is intimate, defined, and respectful. And contrary to appearances, the submissive also holds the power! Physically, one might think he is inferior, but in reality, the relationship is balanced. It is by deciding to be submissive and by playing the game more or less that the dominant is oriented. "All it takes is for me to stop taking any initiative and withdraw into myself as if I had control for Florian to understand where I am going with this. And the more I play "the weak one", the more he plays the strong one. On the contrary, if I want to be a little more present, I show myself more active and he dominates less", Hélène, 31, tells us. Basically, the couple quickly forgets who is the dominant, who is the dominated, and one needs the other to exercise his role . If the dominated expects the dominant to guide him, the dominant can let go if the dominated allows him to and he will set his limits if the dominant goes too far. A game of balance, for maximum pleasure. As long as everyone is consenting. If you are interested in the subject, also discover Alicia's testimony on sexual domination .

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The secrets to perfectly stimulating your clitoris

A sexual organ dedicated to pleasure, the clitoris has nearly 10,000 nerve endings. Suffice to say that it can take us far, very far. What is the clitoris? The clitoris is a female sex organ located at the front of the vulva, where the inner labia meet. It is a small, sensitive bump that plays a central role in female sexual pleasure. It is composed primarily of erectile tissue, similar to that of the penis in men, meaning it can swell and harden in response to stimulation or arousal. The visible part of the clitoris, often called the glans, is just the tip of the iceberg; most of the iceberg is located…inside women's bodies. 6 techniques to stimulate the clitoris S timulate the clitoris with fingers Obviously, manual stimulation is the most common. Whether you're giving yourself solitary pleasure or sharing an intimate moment, fingers allow for gentle exploration of the clitoral area. This is an opportunity to identify the labia minora, labia majora, vaginal vestibule and then the clitoris itself, an infinite source of pleasure. Circling around increases the excitement, while touching too suddenly can cool it down. Gentleness is therefore required for a gradual awakening, until you feel the clitoris become erect. Moisture is also important: you can wet your finger, use a lubricant or simply let the excitement build until the vagina offers natural lubrication. As for the whole hand, it intervenes to apply very light pressure, but also to form small circles. At Goliate, we have the perfect lubricant for you, organic and made in France. Stimulate the clitoris with a toy Many women use sex toys to masturbate, also within the couple. Very often equipped with vibrations, adult toys offer intense sensations. Orgasm can occur very quickly, the stimulation being fast and effective. Many women play and then take a break to use their fingers again. A way to slow down the build-up and create more sexual tension. Moreover, to increase your pleasure when using a toy, it is interesting to contract your perineum to increase your pleasure . Sex toys are a great way to discover your body, to get used to the rhythm at which pleasure builds and settles, and then to play as you please on the path to pleasure. To stimulate your clitoris, we recommend you get started with our The Amazing! clitoris stimulator, dedicated to clitoral pleasure guaranteed orgasm! Gently stimulate the clitoris using friction When young women discover their bodies and engage in autoeroticism, they usually rub themselves against a soft object, such as a pillow, the mattress, even a stuffed animal. Often, they squeeze their legs together in order to fold the clitoris on itself, confining it to the vulva, for greater excitement. Friction allows you to perfectly manage pressure, movement and rhythm. During sexual intercourse, you can rub yourself against your partner's pubis, also on his thigh during foreplay. A way to not abandon your clitoris during vaginal stimulation. It is no less good, no less pleasant, and is not only useful for foreplay. How to stimulate the clitoris with your tongue Cunnilingus offers a very pleasant, wet pleasure. Just as women very often enjoy clitoral pleasure in the shower, via the pressure of the water. Kissing the clitoris, licking it, is an art that is practiced very gently. We choose a position in which we feel completely comfortable. We close our legs or spread them. We release our head back to abandon ourselves or we watch the scene to awaken our senses and get excited visually. Anything goes. The ideal is to take your time, never rushing cunnilingus, a very sensual act during which you can stimulate other erogenous zones, such as the entrance to the vagina or the breasts, by offering breaks. For the one receiving cunnilingus, the most important thing is to let go ! Just to enjoy your pleasure! Clitoral stimulation for two During foreplay or during intercourse, the penis can stimulate the clitoris. The glans is also very sensitive and is said to be composed of about 10,000 nerve endings. This practice is a delight for both partners. Beyond the sensations experienced - the result of the encounter between two very fine body parts - the erotic dimension of this gesture promises a lot of excitement. In other words, it is the very idea of ​​rubbing the glans against the clitoris that brings us into a fantasy world. We visualize the scene , or we watch it, and we become aware of being at the very heart of sexual pleasure. Stimulate the clitoris during penetration For a long time, we have classified female pleasure into a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. However, female pleasure is a whole. There is "only" one orgasm, experienced differently depending on the woman, the time, the circumstances, and the caresses. We then speak of external stimulation and internal stimulation. The clitoris is certainly visible, but it actually measures ten centimeters. It is composed of roots that surround the vagina. The famous G-spot, according to the latest research, would ultimately be a specific point in contact with the clitoris. Stimulating the entrance of the vagina, without much back and forth and without seeking depth, but by caressing the walls, would therefore be the way to stimulate your clitoris from another angle for a global and powerful pleasure. Clitoral stimulation: it’s good for morale! The good news is that the benefits of clitoral stimulation go far beyond our expectations. Clitoral stimulation can have positive effects on mood and general well-being for several reasons: Release of endorphins: When stimulated, the clitoris can lead to orgasm, which in turn triggers the release of endorphins in the brain. Endorphins are often called "happy hormones" because they can cause feelings of pleasure and reduce the perception of pain. Stress Reduction: The act of masturbating or engaging in sexual activity can help reduce stress. This is due to the release of other hormones, such as oxytocin, which can promote relaxation and feelings of well-being. Improved sleep: After an orgasm, many people feel a sense of sleepiness or relaxation, which can lead to deeper, more restful sleep. Self-esteem building: Discovering and appreciating one's own body can build self-esteem and self-confidence. Feeling good about oneself and being in tune with one's sexuality can have positive effects on body image and self-esteem. Strengthening bonds: If clitoral stimulation is done with a partner , it can strengthen emotional bonds and complicity between the two people, which is also beneficial for morale. Relief of menstrual pain: For some women, masturbation or sexual activity during menstruation can help relieve menstrual cramps. So, are you ready to try the adventure for maximum pleasure?

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A short guide to getting started with sex toys

Have you never used sex toys but are curious to get started? Our advice for getting started with confidence (and a lot of fun). Sex toys are not reserved for single people or for those who encounter sexual difficulties and feel the need to be supported in the discovery of their body. Indeed, sex toys are for everyone, whether you are alone or in a couple, and whatever your desires. Our advice for choosing the right sex toy when starting out. I question my desire Before getting a sex toy, you can think about what attracts you to this new adventure. Want to get to know your body better? To meet a specific organ more intimately, such as the clitoris or the prostate? A desire to approach new orgasms, or to have fun with your partner or partners? Answering these questions will guide you in your choice, especially since GOLIATE offers you a menu based on your "desire": it is your desires that lead you to sex toys, and that is ideal! I choose an accessible sex toy that appeals to me "Don't have your eyes bigger than your stomach", we sometimes hear. It works a little with toys: no need, when you take your first steps, to buy a huge vibrator or order 17 sex toys. The important thing is to choose one that resonates with your desire and that responds to your approach and your vision of sexuality. I use water-based lube We cannot repeat it enough, but lube is not an option. Let's say that humidity is a guarantee of pleasure and comfort, which is why the vagina and penis become moist during sexual arousal. A water-based lubricant, such as our Sensual Glide Gel, will therefore go wonderfully with the use of a sex toy by providing softness and fluidity. I wash my sex toy well before and after use On the hygiene side now, we note that it is good to wash your sex toy before and after use. How ? No dishwasher or strange products. We opt for a classic soap with a little water, and we wipe the toy by dabbing it in a towel. Otherwise, GOLIATE markets an organic, vegan cleaner and disinfectant, made in France, which takes care of toys and extends their lifespan.

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7 things to know about the prostate (and prostate pleasure)

The prostate is a gland that participates in sexual pleasure. But what do we really know about its functions and secrets? 7 revelations. We reveal to you the 7 secrets of the prostate and our advice for maximum pleasure! What are the 7 facts you need to know about the prostate? The prostate is the size of a chestnut Until the age of 40, the prostate resembles a chestnut . It weighs approximately 15 to 20 grams. Then, it gradually gains volume. We can then compare it to a small apricot, or even a clementine. This hypertrophy is benign but can lead to urinary problems. The prostate is not idle, it participates in the production of sperm Don't imagine that the prostate does nothing all day. On the contrary ! Its main mission? Produce seminal fluid to protect and nourish the sperm, and allow them to move. In short**, the prostate adds liquid to the river!** At the same time, it is used occasionally, during ejaculation : it expels the sperm so that it exits the penis. The prostate is located below the bladder Talking about the prostate, prostate pleasure and prostate orgasm is good, but you still have to locate your prostate to meet it! It is located under the bladder and is accessible by digital rectal examination, approximately 7 centimeters from the entrance to the rectum, hence the “need” to go through the back door to stimulate it. We can feel prostate pleasure by stimulating the perineum The prostate can also be stimulated by massaging the external part of the pelvic muscles – under the bursae, to generate perineal contractions which then have repercussions on the prostate. She will be “titillated” indirectly, for your greatest pleasure. Prostate pleasure can make you want to pee If you feel like urinating during sexual intercourse, especially when the prostate is stimulated, this is normal. The bladder being next to the prostate, it is also titillated. Sex toys can accompany prostate pleasure To experience your prostate pleasure, you can use sex toys. Able to put you at ease, they are specially designed to gently stimulate this intimate area . Using an anal relaxant or a special anal lubricant will also be appropriate, since the anus does not lubricate naturally. To enjoy more, you can imagine your prostate Male pleasure, contrary to popular belief, is not only external since it is not limited to the penis alone! However, since the prostate is hidden, it is not always easy to envisage prostate pleasure. Whether you're a beginner or not, you can activate your brain and imagine your prostate to connect to this gland and feel all the pleasure it provides. This is also an excellent way to obtain a more diffuse and deeper prostate orgasm. Our advice for having more prostate pleasure It is important to note that prostate pleasure can vary greatly between individuals, and what is pleasurable for one person may not be pleasurable for another. Additionally, prostate stimulation is not necessarily pleasurable for all men , and some may not experience any particular pleasure from this activity. To make the most of it, we have prepared some tips for you to increase your prostate pleasure tenfold (if that's your thing obviously!). Trust yourself and have confidence Confidence in oneself and in others is an essential element for enjoying yourself, whether in an intimate relationship or in other aspects of life. Having self-confidence allows you to express your wants and needs without fear of judgment, and to be open to exploring new experiences. Trust in each other, on the other hand, creates a safe space where both parties can feel comfortable sharing and exploring together. It allows for open and honest communication , essential for understanding and respecting each person's limits and desires. This mutual trust creates a deeper, enriching connection, allowing individuals to relax and fully enjoy the present moment. In an intimate relationship, this trust can open the door to greater intimacy and shared pleasure, strengthening the bond between partners. It is in this type of relationship that we can gently and respectfully try prostate pleasure with our partner! Lubricant is key to prostate pleasure When we play this kind of naughty game, we ALWAYS put the lubricant first. That’s why we made ours (organic and respectful of the body of course) Here are all the good reasons to use lubricant when attempting prostate pleasure: Increased pleasure: using lubricant allows fingers or toys to slide better, which increases pleasure! Reduced friction : Lubricant reduces friction between contacting surfaces, such as skin against skin or skin against sex toys. This can make sexual activity more comfortable and enjoyable. Preventing irritation : By reducing friction, lubricant can also help prevent irritation and abrasions that can occur during prolonged or vigorous sex. Enhanced sexual experience : For some people, using lubricant can increase sensation and pleasure. Indeed, lubricant allows you to go further, to use toys and therefore does things gently. It also makes us want to explore our bodies more. Facilitation of penetration : Lubricant can facilitate penetration, making the experience more enjoyable for both partners. This can be particularly useful in the case of anal penetration, where there is no natural lubrication. Compatibility with sex toys : Some lubricants are specially designed for use with sex toys, enhancing the experience and protecting the materials of the toys. Variety and Exploration : There are a wide variety of lubricants available, including those that are scented, flavored, or provide hot or cold sensations. This can add an extra dimension of exploration and pleasure to the sexual experience. Now that you know the 7 big secrets of the prostate and that you are introduced to prostate pleasure, it's time to go and test it live, solo or with your partner! So ready to have maximum fun?  

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5 Ways to revisit good old missionary

 Sexual position known to all and ultra-comfortable, the missionary is neither boring nor drowsy. It is enough to revisit it to be convinced of its charm and take a crazy pleasure. Our advices. In a heterosexual configuration, the missionary position looks like this: the woman is lying on her back and the man is lying on top of her to penetrate her. Simple ? Maybe. But comfortable and a guarantee of pleasure! To go further, this classic and routine-looking missionary can be revisited. What to do to boost it? Extract all its erotic potential? Achieve more surprising orgasms? Our ideas. A missionary… with a cushion In this first variant, the woman places a cushion at the level of her lower back, or in the lower back. The cushion should be small (no need to bring a huge pillow, which would be more cumbersome than anything else!). It allows you to gently arch your back for a new angle of penetration. GOLIATE loves because missionary is a comfortable position, and missionary with a cushion is an even more comfortable position! And comfort is far from being incompatible with pleasure, on the contrary. A missionary… at the edge of the bed And if we proposed to his missionary to… slide slightly? The partners can approach the edge of the bed: the woman puts her feet on the ground (while she is lying down) and the man penetrates her. This position is almost an inverted replica of the missionary with a cushion, since this time the woman does not arch and the angle of penetration is the opposite of the previous variant. GOLIATE loves because being on the edge of the bed adds spice and a big touch of eroticism to the missionary. A missionary… legs up The advantage of the missionary with the legs raised is that it offers the possibility of varying the angle of penetration as you wish, and every two minutes if you wish! For this, the woman spreads her legs in the air. During penetration, the man can feel a lot of pleasure and ease as the opening of the legs fluidifies the meeting and the fusion. GOLIATE loves because raising the legs can be done whenever desired. Nothing prevents returning to a more classic missionary the next moment. This movement of the legs thus invites all the variants and all the pleasures. The missionary… who rolls up Here, the raised legs close around the partner's torso, which then becomes enveloped. By being attached to her partner, the woman follows the movement of penetration all the more. This position allows both partners to be one and to go further in pleasure. GOLIATE loves because this is the time to slow down the back-and-forth penetration and play with circular penetration. The moment rhymes with fusion and the partner can, with his penis, caress the vaginal walls of his partner. The missionary… merry-go-round style Once in place, the missionary can get on the big merry-go-round of pleasure and surprise. Why stay on top of each other, without trying to lose the north? Thus, we can roll, end up on the side, or reverse the roles. By being on top of her partner, the woman is in a position that reminds us of the Andromache, but when she keeps her legs a minimum closed and does not straighten up, we are in a reverse missionary! GOLIATE loves because turning and playing with his missionary, we take a crazy pleasure to return to the starting missionary. It looks like a break, an accomplice moment when you catch your breath. It's exquisite.

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GOLIATE is an adventure that we live with you. This is why we have decided to give you the floor by inviting you to test The Amazing!, our clitoral and vaginal stimulator. How it works ? Who can participate? We will explain everything to you. GOLIATE works every day for your well-being by offering you adult toys and pleasure cosmetics. And you are the one who speaks best about our products! Thus, and because we attach particular importance to your feedback, we are asking you to become a tester.se for GOLIATE. For this, we offer you the opportunity to discover The Amazing!. In return, you create content that we will then post on our Instagram account, @goliate_official . Are you tempted? Here are the steps to follow. Who can test? Everyone ! If you want to test The Amazing!, the only thing we ask of you is to make videos in story format that will be shared with our Instagram community. What should I do once I receive the product? If you are selected, you will receive the sex toy at your home and enjoy it in private. Then, we ask you to provide us with videos in story format that relate your experience. It's not about content to be produced in the heat of the moment, but content in which you share your feelings and impressions: how did you find the packaging? The product itself? Were the sensations there? Are the vibrations effective? What are the qualities of the product? What pitfalls have you identified? We will accompany you in the realization of your content. We can give you ideas, help you find the right words and the right shot. Our team will keep in touch with you and you can chat. Important ! The face camera and the broadcasting of videos on your personal account are not mandatory. It's up to you to imagine the format that makes you most comfortable, between voice-over, texts or facing the camera! How can I register? Edit: registrations are closed. Nothing's easier. You just need to fill out this form. We will then study the requests and we will contact you by email if you have been chosen to test The Amazing!. You have until Friday, May 21, 2021 to register. You have questions ? Contact us by private message on Instagram .

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The Coital Alignment Technique to Increase Pleasure

The CAT method, for coital alignment technique, is played during penetration and more particularly the missionary position. Thanks to it, women can discover new sensations and more intense orgasms. Why try the coital alignment technique? Penetrative sex has many qualities , but it also has a flaw: with all the back and forth, female pleasure sometimes feels left out. Indeed, several studies show us that penetration alone is not ideal for reaching orgasm. This does not mean that it should be avoided, only that a double stimulation – including vulvar and clitoral caresses – is welcome. And the CAT method – CAT for coital alignment technique – is used for this: this practice invites both partners to leave the usual penetrative patterns and to reinvent penetration for more pleasure and fusion. The CAT Method or How to Position Yourself to Maximize Pleasure It’s an approach that’s made its way into the world of intimacy, and for good reason. Originating from the research of Dr. Beverly Whipple , an American sexologist, this technique focuses on optimal positioning during intercourse to maximize clitoral stimulation. Basically, it’s a way of redefining the missionary position. The story behind the technique The coital alignment technique is not just a passing fad. It has deep roots in scientific research. In the 1980s, Dr. Whipple, in collaboration with Dr. Barry Komisaruk, began studying the physiology of female orgasm. Their work revealed that the clitoris plays a central role in female pleasure, and that its direct or indirect stimulation can lead to more intense and satisfying orgasms. How to achieve coital alignment? The technique itself is quite simple. During missionary sex, the man positions himself slightly higher on the woman's body. This allows for increased pressure and friction on the clitoris . The motion is not so much a typical back and forth, but more of a rocking or grinding motion. This promotes constant clitoral stimulation, increasing the woman's chances of achieving orgasm. So, next time you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, why not try the alignment technique. So, how does it work in concrete terms? To practice the CAT method, we… penetrate each other (to begin with). But this time, we break our habits. Rather than going back and forth (we know how), we play with our pelvises and undulate together . To do this, the partner, placed on top, lies down on his partner. If he must not crush her (that would be a shame), he must not hesitate to slump down a little , the idea being to be very close and stuck together. The partner, below, will straighten her legs and not spread them very far. The important thing to remember is that the two bodies are thus aligned. And they must be aligned, as the name of the technique specifies. Then, we move our bodies. In other words, we wiggle. A practice that invites the stimulation of the vaginal walls (often neglected when it comes to going straight to the bottom of the tunnel) and the vulva, since the pubic area is in contact. And we know that the glans of the clitoris, which is located at the top of the vulva, likes to be part of it! And as always, for extra softness, we do this with a nice natural lubricant from the family . Coital alignment isn't for everyone either. Please note, however, that for girls who are very sensitive in the clitoris, this technique should perhaps be avoided or tested very gently. Indeed, even if it is fashionable, it is possible that you do not like the sensations and that is completely ok. But, there are plenty of people for whom this technique remains an excellent idea to spice up their sex life. The curious about pleasure If you're the type of person who's always looking for new ways to explore and improve your intimate life, this technique is for you. Whether you've been in a relationship for years or you've just met someone, coital alignment is a great way to rediscover pleasure together. The followers of renewal Are you tired of the routine? Do you feel like you've tried everything? Coital alignment could be that little spark that rekindles the flame. It's a simple method, but it can bring a renewal to your intimacy. Clitoris Skeptics If you or your partner have always struggled to understand the importance of the clitoris in female pleasure, this is your chance to discover it. This technique focuses on clitoral stimulation, and may well change your mind about its central role. Sharing lovers will love it The coital alignment technique is not just for the woman's pleasure. It is a shared experience, where both partners can feel a deeper connection and mutual pleasure. So, are you also going to try the CAT method?

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VAGINISMUS: WHAT SOLUTIONS TO GET OUT OF IT?

Due to an involuntary muscular contraction of the muscles surrounding the vagina, vaginismus makes penetration painful or even impossible. How to treat it and regain a fulfilling sex life? Our tracks.   Behind the term vaginismus, there is that of vagina. But vaginismus is not a vagina problem, nor a gynecological problem; usually the vagina is fine. Vaginismus is a sexual disorder linked to an involuntary contraction of the muscles surrounding the vagina. This contraction then prevents penetration. It's as if the vagina was closing, locking itself. Medically speaking, we distinguish partial vaginismus (at this time, the subject has no difficulty inserting a tampon, a cup, an ovum, only coital penetration is made impossible) from total vaginismus (in this case, any "intrusion" is impossible), but also primary vaginismus (always present) secondary vaginismus (which occurs later in life, when everything was going well until now). But why do the muscles of the perineum lock and how to treat vaginismus?   Fear of pain and fear of the penis When we talk about vaginismus, we are therefore talking about a reflex contraction of the muscles of the vagina: we “want” to make love, but something is blocking it, the body refuses. In question, often dyspareunia, that is to say pain during intercourse. By dint of pain, of a badly experienced penetration, the vagina chooses to close so as not to “relive” this experience. In other cases, we can evoke in the broad sense the fear of the penis, due to a distorted vision of the male sex (we imagine it very large, while we imagine its very small vagina), sexual abuse which revives in the subject a fear of suffering. We can also question the way we look at sexuality, or what we have heard about sexuality. A woman, for example, who thinks that sex is "dirty", can suffer from vaginismus insofar as she does not allow herself sexuality. Of course, all this does not mean that dyspareunia, sexual abuse, or a "negative" view of sexuality necessarily leads to vaginismus. "Practical" solutions Without saying that vaginismus is purely "in the head", it is necessary to admit, all the same, its psychological nature, so that a psychiatric follow-up can be of great help. But there are other parallel solutions to get out of it and re-tame your body. Namely, already, that vaginismus does not always prevent a fulfilling sexuality: penetration is, wrongly, the centerpiece of sexual intercourse . However, one can take pleasure in practicing a so-called "preliminary" sexuality, thanks to external caresses, in particular via stimulation of the vulva (and therefore of the glans of the clitoris), breasts, belly... This "way of doing allows women to relax, lubricate, and realize that their body is still in the game. A positive observation that is more than useful for healing. Then, specialists generally suggest taking your time: the muscles of the vagina, if they contract, do not contract for hours. During a relationship of trust, with lubricant , softness and external caresses to calm down, it is possible to “play” at the entrance to the vagina. The idea is not at all to force the passage, but to show your body, inch by inch, that it can relax. The vagina is like tights: it's when you put your leg in that it opens. Even if so, here, we won't talk about a leg (atmosphere) but a finger, then a penis. If, of course, the pain is present and the penetration impossible, we resume the sexuality of foreplay, we have fun differently, so as not to lose confidence. Finally, masturbation also remains an avenue to explore: the fear of the penis and, sometimes, the fear of a relationship that is too virulent, partly explain vaginismus. Masturbation then allows you, solo, to meet your body and reassure yourself: it's ok, it's going well. A “victory” which invites, then, to share a sexual relationship in a new dimension. If, at two, it blocks again and again, it is then necessary to take stock: what bothers me in this configuration? In the practice of penetration? Elements of response to then share with a specialist if necessary.

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THE ESSENTIAL HUMASANA AND GOLIATE

GOLIATE's Interview by Essential Humasana Morgan, the founder of GOLIATE recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by the team at Humasana, whose mission is to find the best health and well-being products in Europe and offer them in their online parapharmacy. If you want to know more about the creation of GOLIATE, what makes our products unique in the wellness and organic market, or how we pay particular attention to the composition of our products and our manufacturing process: we invite you to read the article .